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LOL, seems pretty neat to me, SIDE CHICK.
I'd love to have such a handy Side Chick - at least until I get sick of her and dump her for another stupid little, SIDE CHICK!
Seems there's plenty of 'em...........
Damn.... he likes playing with fire. A smart guy would never bring a side dish to his place if he already has a woman living with him. Too much of a chance of getting caught if she comes home early from work or where ever she is when she tells him "I'm going out." He'll always meet the SD at her place, and also never go out to places where they may be seen and it could get back to his gf.
For all you know, he may be wanting to get caught, so he won't have to be the one to end the relationship he is in. Last thing you want would be to get caught in the middle of that.
You still want to be with him (why, I don't know, because the adage "if he cheats with you, he'll cheat on you is very, very true), tell him not to contact you until he gets his present situation taken care of (meaning ENDED and the gf has her own place elsewhere), and then put him into No Contact until he does, and is willing to prove it to you.
Seriously, though, WTF would you want to be with a guy where you have to keep your relationship a secret???
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Originally Posted by Valene92
So i met this guy at a party, he didnt tell me had a gf. I never would have guessed. He asked me out on a date, and we went out at a pub. I know of his friends as well, and we all chilled together with some of my friends. He invited me over one day to hangout and i discovered women things at his place i confronted him and he told me he had a gf, but was scared to tell me. I was furious for awhile, but i continued to see him. He asked me to keep things between him and I a secret. He holds my hand in public when we go downtown. We go out to restaurants. We hangout on the weekend and weeknights. I told him i wanted a relationship, long term and he told me wherever this road will take us relationship or no relationship he is happy. He told me that he wants us to go on a road trip together soon.I havent met his gf but it seems like he has has free time, we text everyday all day, we hangout three times a week... i have slept over at his place. Apparently his gf lives at his place but i havent seen her there. One of his friends recently showed interest in me and he was jealous. He told me he isnt comfortable with me being sexually involved with his friends. His gf and him have been dating for 3 years he is 27 years old. I just dont know if its worth it? I dont want to be the side chick but he says he really likes me as a person.
So i met this guy at a party, he didnt tell me had a gf. I never would have guessed. He asked me out on a date, and we went out at a pub. I know of his friends as well, and we all chilled together with some of my friends. He invited me over one day to hangout and i discovered women things at his place i confronted him and he told me he had a gf, but was scared to tell me. I was furious for awhile, but i continued to see him. He asked me to keep things between him and I a secret. He holds my hand in public when we go downtown. We go out to restaurants. We hangout on the weekend and weeknights. I told him i wanted a relationship, long term and he told me wherever this road will take us relationship or no relationship he is happy. He told me that he wants us to go on a road trip together soon.I havent met his gf but it seems like he has has free time, we text everyday all day, we hangout three times a week... i have slept over at his place. Apparently his gf lives at his place but i havent seen her there. One of his friends recently showed interest in me and he was jealous. He told me he isnt comfortable with me being sexually involved with his friends. His gf and him have been dating for 3 years he is 27 years old. I just dont know if its worth it? I dont want to be the side chick but he says he really likes me as a person.
So you slept in the bed where he may have had sex with the other girl the night before?
Gross. But it seems you like that. I would have run after he reveals he is TAKEN.
Layman's terms; they'll do it WITH you, they'll do it TO you.
But, but but, I'm special.He cheated on her because she wasn't good to him. I am the better woman, and he'll love me. I'm not his ex.
Usually the way it goes. Many side-pieces always wanna think they're special, or that the guy was looking to "trade up." Then when they get played, they're the innocent victim who was lied to and manipulated.
OP, more often than not, this guy doesn't care anything about you. The side chick, more often than not, doesn't get an upgrade to girlfriend. The guy will tell you what you want to hear, because he knows that makes you weak in the knees, or wet, and you stick around w/o him actually having to do much -other than talk now and again.
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Stupid side chick!
