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Because people can't always get exactly what they want, so they settle. Or they liked their partners well enough until they got bored with them and wanted to try something else.
Or people change- and they do. The next woman to quit wanting to have sex after she seemed to really like it early on, won't be the first.
Boredom is always going to set in, but much faster if one side cuts the other off.
Or people change- and they do. The next woman to quit wanting to have sex after she seemed to really like it early on, won't be the first.
Boredom is always going to set in, but much faster if one side cuts the other off.
I doubt the majority of men are cheating because their wives refuse to have sex with them. And in those cases, I'd wonder what they've done to address the problem with their wives before looking to cheat.
I agree that most men aren't cheating for that reason, but I have seen some indication that men who are involuntarily not getting much sex in their marriages are more likely to cheat. Which is common sense. Most men who cheat do it because they can, I suspect. Who knows how much the female 'target' has to do with it.
I've been pursued by two married men in my life,one started emailing me this was a long time ago and I was naive so probably would have went along with it without thinking,as far as I could tell his wife was overweight and a bit cranky but otherwise I don't know why he was doing it.
The second time recently being older I had a long talk with this new guy about appreciating his wife in that case I think he was just a free spirit who wanted a bit of change,or we had some electricity.There is nothing to stop OP from talking to these mm's about their wives though sometimes it doesn't make any difference.
My girlfriend tells me that in her long career, she's pretty much only ever been hit on by married men. I don't get the whole lack of personal ethics thing.
I've been pursued by two married men in my life,one started emailing me this was a long time ago and I was naive so probably would have went along with it without thinking,as far as I could tell his wife was overweight and a bit cranky but otherwise I don't know why he was doing it.
The second time recently being older I had a long talk with this new guy about appreciating his wife in that case I think he was just a free spirit who wanted a bit of change,or we had some electricity.There is nothing to stop OP from talking to these mm's about their wives though sometimes it doesn't make any difference.
To be completely honest I am just insulted that a guy who has a wife has no guilt about potentially using an innocent single person to fulfill some unmet needs (most likely sex). The current married guy is the quintessential "nice guy" with a young wife (about 10 yrs my junior) in a fairly new marriage. I have blocked him from messaging me but he makes it a point to be close at work.
I still don't understand why you take is as an insult?, why not just treat it as you would any other bloke that you wouldn't consider an option?
That way you wouldn't end up getting so wound up about it love
Seriously I'm not being funny I just don't understand why you take it so personally cheers
EDIT: sorry I meant to quote your post about addressing Katie not this one
Its insulting because an unavailable man is looking at me to fill whatever need is missing.....its like being objectified. Its not a good feeling.
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