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Old 04-21-2017, 09:15 PM
 
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Just as an update, I have decided to go! We will be leaving tomorrow morning.
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Old 04-21-2017, 09:16 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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The OP has been busy, so she hasn't had time to clarify and answer questions :P

But anyway, he did know my exam was coming up. I spoke to the professor and she said I could go (I would redo the exam as soon as I was back) but yesterday the Dean said he would have to cut a portion of my grade. Certainly is not helping me with the lack of certainty.
Why didn't you just ask your husband to schedule the trip for the following week, instead? That would have been easier than asking the prof if you could reschedule the exam. Why are you jumping through hoops to accommodate him, when the two of you could have chosen a travel week together? Was there some reason the trip HAD to happen on certain dates? It would have been a lot easier to simply plan around your exam date. Since you said he knew when it was, any normal person would have scheduled a trip outside of that date.

Something here still isn't making sense. And didn't you post earlier that he didn't think your class had a final exam?
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Old 04-21-2017, 09:19 PM
 
Location: Central IL
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Just as an update, I have decided to go! We will be leaving tomorrow morning.
Does it feel like we've all just been taken for a ride?
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Old 04-21-2017, 09:24 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Does it feel like we've all just been taken for a ride?
According to the OP's other thread, she has a job with a heavy workload, in addition to going to school full time (meaning: more than one final exam, likely). No mention of arranging for a vacation week from her job, in this thread, though.
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Old 04-21-2017, 10:43 PM
 
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Yeah, willing to bet theres more to this story...you dont divorce over one situation.
Especially a situation that could be handled with a Xanax, being that the OP has not seen fit to get therapy for her phobia in eight years.
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Old 04-21-2017, 11:12 PM
 
Location: Chicago. Kind of.
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Does it feel like we've all just been taken for a ride?
OH yeah! And we don't even get frequent flyer miles for this nonsense!
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Old 04-22-2017, 06:39 AM
 
Location: In an indoor space
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Does it feel like we've all just been taken for a ride?
I wasn't taken for a ride because I questioned that the complete story wasn't (and still isn't) given by the OP.

Her husband however should have asked the OP for a time period good for the both of them imo.
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Old 04-22-2017, 07:50 AM
 
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Does it feel like we've all just been taken for a ride?
No. Because I kind of knew that her story didn't add up.
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Old 04-22-2017, 01:47 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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I wasn't taken for a ride because I questioned that the complete story wasn't (and still isn't) given by the OP.

Her husband however should have asked the OP for a time period good for the both of them imo.
A lot of us stated more info was needed. What I think renee's point was, is that much of the story itself was conjured. Or her panic level exaggerated, at the very least.
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Old 04-22-2017, 02:48 PM
 
Location: Middle America
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Good luck on future responses, hon.
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