Move on or wait for him to be financially stable/independent?

[fleetiebelle]

Originally Posted by Mikala43

I can't speak for "women" (why can you?) but money/success level were a consideration. I prefer someone that was equal to my own financial condition. Both of my husbands were.

I think an unbalance can create problems.

And preferring a partner who's financially responsible, who has long-term goals, and who can take care of himself isn't at all the same thing as being a gold-digger.

As a side note, I wonder where all of these recent new posters are finding all of these single women who don't have jobs and expect to be pampered. is it peak migration time for these gals, so they're out roaming the plains?

[Mikala43]

Originally Posted by fleetiebelle

And preferring a partner who's financially responsible, who has long-term goals, and can take care of himself isn't at all the same thing as being a gold-digger.

Exactly. Perhaps if he was settled in a career and motivated, but making less money, there would not be the hesitation on the OPs part.

I would not want to live with a who was lazy, because I am not.

[Anconnor89]

This is tough, you clearly care for him and I know the feeling, in a similar situation. I ended things but now feeling uncertain as the connection continues to be undeniable. Good luck in your decision. Remember, true love and chemistry is hard to find