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Some who are born into wealth , also learn manners and proper courtesy. The nannies have more grace skills to impart upon the young ones. Mostly they are geared towards better behavior. On the same page are some who are arrogant and elitest..And seem to flaunt their wealth.
I was blessed to date a self made millionaire who vested in the silicon valley upsurge. Sold at just the right time. At 40 he retired from the work life and started living life. He made no mention of it when we met. My rule of dating was ..I pay my own way ..
Never once did he intrude on that philosophy. He was low key in public and most would assume he worked blue collar based on his casual attire and long hair.
I admired his intelligence and personality.
He was not materialistic so he was able to use his funds for adventures.
I'm not impressed by bank accounts..I'm impressed if a gent has manners and a good sense of self. Which most parents do try to instill.
Wrong on so many levels. Many women including myself rely on ourselves for what we need and want materially and financially. That does not even include the fact that Mr. CSD was 6 figures in debt from the divorce from hades, some bad decisions, loss of a business because of mentioned divorce and some ill advised investments that did not do well.
It took him and I 8 years to get all of the debt paid and damage from that divorce fixed.
So, your *matter of fact logical statement* is an ill informed assumption on your part because some of us humans care more about the person we are with than any monetary gifts they could bring.
And, I would not trade Mr. CSD for any other man on this planet.
It's not ill informed, you're just applying personal feeling and personal circumstance to it, which is separate from the realities that we are talking about here.
Last edited by rego00123; 05-13-2017 at 08:58 AM..
100 percent. Women fall in love with resources. Men fall in love with looks and to a degree, virtue. It's a biological thing.
Maybe in the Brave New World transhumanist coming years we can elminate sex differences with genetic engineering but what's the fun in that.
I dont think either actually fall in love with those things.
They are the things that initially attract due evolutionary psychology but not the things that cause actual falling in love.
most of the guys i know with good women and good marriages don't make a lot of money so there ya have it...what does that that tell you? And in some cases the wife is making more than the husband which is something like 30 percent of households now if not more if you look at the under 45 age bracket.
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