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Old 05-03-2017, 12:02 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Very grade school'ish. And you made this immature woman your significant other?
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Old 05-03-2017, 12:10 AM
 
Location: Queens, NY
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Yeah, no way in hell would I date a woman like this.

And the reasoning that she's calling other people ugly to make you less jealous makes no sense.
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Old 05-03-2017, 12:24 AM
 
Location: 415->916->602
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how old is she, two years old? Ninety percent of infants are better behaved than this person...SMH.

She's probably insecure with her own looks and projecting that feeling towards other people.
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Old 05-03-2017, 01:31 AM
 
Location: Austin, TX
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I imagine that the vast majority of mature, socially well-adjusted men and women would definitely be turned-off by her behavior, OP. They wouldn't want to date such a person. It's unlikely that they would want to even be friends or acquaintances with such a person. And they would be reluctant to hire a person like that, even if she/he's otherwise well-qualified for the job.

Most decent, socially-aware and happy people generally try to keep their distance from those who constantly express such negativity about others. (There are exceptions, of course.)

With that said...even if she was unnaturally obsessed with strangers' looks in a positive way, that would still give me some pause. It's normal to have a curious reaction toward the rare person that looks "way out there" (depending on how the reaction is expressed), but I doubt I'd want to get into a relationship with someone who cared THAT much about the appearance of typical everyday strangers, regardless of whether those strangers are other guys or women. It's shallow, period.
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Old 05-03-2017, 01:34 AM
 
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Mean Girls Club. She's the one who's ugly, and I'm not talking about looks.
It doesn't matter if she thinks she's being quiet enough about it. Some people have very good hearing, can you imagine how awful you'll feel when they turn around to see who said that?
Bleh, run.
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Old 05-03-2017, 02:07 AM
 
Location: between Mars and Venus
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It's mean especially if comment is made just for mocking purpose. Who knows what she calls you behind your back...
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Old 05-03-2017, 02:17 AM
 
Location: Lexington, Kentucky
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Mean. Rude. Immature. Shallow.
Wonder if she has ever heard of the Golden rule.
(And from your other post, it sounds like she is insecure and jealous to boot!)
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Old 05-04-2017, 07:32 PM
 
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Usually these girls who say such things are under 25 years old. How young is she?
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Old 05-04-2017, 07:36 PM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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That can become super annoying, immature, and manipulative.
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Old 05-04-2017, 07:43 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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Nope I never call people ugly it's a horrible word that can cut someone deep
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