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I understand and yes I wouldn't have lots of contact with one that had a full blown exclusive partner in the hope of getting a ONS either but from what he said to her " he's not really with her and want to see other people " is quite self explanatory and screams either an open or a FWB relationship so why wouldn't someone pursue IF they believe they're doing nothing wrong?
Well, the thing is, the OP did her homework before getting involved, and saw that the chap hadn't been truthful, and that as far as his gf was concerned, it seemed that they were very much together, still. Yet she proceeded, anyway. This is what's killing her.
Everything did not happen "so fast." You went back for this, remember? After at least a week of thinking about it. So you had about a hundred chances to call it off.
Forget about him and his girlfriend. Now that you know you aren't made for this kind of thing, remember that and remember it the next time you're tempted to blame bad decisions on "getting caught up" in it.
And never ever EVER have unprotected sex with someone you don't know very well. Come on.
Also, in the future if he has a GF but says they're "not together," don't even go there.
Some people can live in that kind of gray area, but a lot of people can't, as you now know.
:c rying::cry ing:
No, we did PO It's fine though. I am sure I am not preggers and he donates blood. I still have a health check with my gyno. However, I still feel as if I should be punished for doing this. I feel so down.
Well, the thing is, the OP did her homework before getting involved, and saw that the chap hadn't been truthful, and that as far as his gf was concerned, it seemed that they were very much together, still. Yet she proceeded, anyway. This is what's killing her.
Yes but she had a look on social media and " saw that they were very much together " ...... You'll see pictures on my phone of women that looks like we're very much together but obviously it's not the case as it's just casual.
Of course you're right my love they could be very much together but pictures on social media are not a guarantee that they are as it could quite easily be casual/FWB ( unless of course there's ONLY pictures of them two then that's probably a clearer statement )
But yes you're right she at least believes she's done her homework and that's what's killing her
Everything did not happen "so fast." You went back for this, remember? After at least a week of thinking about it. So you had about a hundred chances to call it off.
And never ever EVER have unprotected sex with someone you don't know very well. Come on.
OP - you're not a victim in this situation.
Telling his gf is low class and vindictive... grow up and move on and make better choices.
Yes but she had a look on social media and " saw that they were very much together " ...... You'll see pictures on my phone of women that looks like we're very much together but obviously it's not the case as it's just casual.
Of course you're right my love they could be very much together but pictures on social media are not a guarantee that they are as it could quite easily be casual/FWB ( unless of course there's ONLY pictures of them two then that's probably a clearer statement )
But yes you're right she at least believes she's done her homework and that's what's killing her
well, the thing is, the op did her homework before getting involved, and saw that the chap hadn't been truthful, and that as far as his gf was concerned, it seemed that they were very much together, still. Yet she proceeded, anyway. This is what's killing her.
exactly!
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