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It may be. May be me trying to rationalize all this. I acknowledge you and others may be very right in saying "this is the end" or "it's over" and so on.
If it is, I will be very sad. I just don't see that coming. I could be wrong.
It may be. May be me trying to rationalize all this. I acknowledge you and others may be very right in saying "this is the end" or "it's over" and so on.
If it is, I will be very sad. I just don't see that coming. I could be wrong.
No one really knows how they will deal with something until it happens to them. You are in a sort of spiral right now, so it's no wonder you may not know exactly what you do feel.
No one really knows how they will deal with something until it happens to them. You are in a sort of spiral right now, so it's no wonder you may not know exactly what you do feel.
It's true. I admit there is an element of numb shock and confusion. My emotions, or at least my feelings about all this specifically, are all over the place, but I think I am handling it well.
I am not crushed, do not feel anger. I guess the one feeling I am sure is that I love my wife and in my heart I feel like our story is not finished.
Your wife tells you things that are not true to hide her private life. What does that make her?
This doesn't really happen. On the contrary, she's been pretty open and forthcoming. If she was lying or concealing to a great degree, she certainly wouldn't have shared the information with me that she has.
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Your wife conceals an extramarital relationship from you for months. What does that make her?
This isn't the case. I knew what was going to be happening before anything happened. I was on hiatus from work from the time we moved to the state until May 1st. I was with her nearly every minute. This is a far more recent development. I don't believe my wife has ever done anything like this before.
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Your wife accepts expensive gifts and financial support from a married man in exchange for sex. What does that make her?
Somebody's mistress who accepts gifts she is offered.
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I don't think I have ever seen someone so deliberately obtuse about what is right in front of them.
Again, I understand that sentiment, and many here share it, but the only sense in which I am "obtuse" is to not be able to see the future.
Your wife tells you things that are not true to hide her private life. What does that make her?
This doesn't really happen. On the contrary, she's been pretty open and forthcoming. If she was lying or concealing to a great degree, she certainly wouldn't have shared the information with me that she has.
She lied to you about how she met the guy, right? At least you believe she isn;t being honest, you said so yourself.
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Your wife conceals an extramarital relationship from you for months. What does that make her?
This isn't the case. I knew what was going to be happening before anything happened. I was on hiatus from work from the time we moved to the state until May 1st. I was with her nearly every minute. This is a far more recent development. I don't believe my wife has ever done anything like this before.
You said she met him just a few weeks ago, but he has already bought her a car and paid for her insurance and rented her an apartment??? After knowing her two weeks? You believe that?
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Your wife accepts expensive gifts and financial support from a married man in exchange for sex. What does that make her?
Somebody's mistress who accepts gifts she is offered.
OK, if that is ethical behavior to you, and an example you want to set for your kids... well we look at the world two different ways. Remind me not to get caught up in such a "free-spirited" lifestyle.
What the both of you are doing to his poor wife and family is unconscionable. BLECHHHHH.
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