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Putting my own needs and desires aside is called being kind, not everything is about what YOU GAIN in life. With relationships I get that you think I'm being overly nice and i should consider what i want, but I am always straight forward regardless of how nuch I offend her and she knows it. She has 0 control over my actions. I have the upper hand because that loser is out of state, not going anywhere in life, half my size, and lacks all work ethic. If i don't want to be friendzoned and i want to get sexual, then I will simple as that. I posted this for different perspectives, not because i am venting my frustration.
You've spent so much energy and focus talking about this how much this guy is a loser, but a "winner" wouldn't have the time nor energy to focus so much on the negative qualities of another person either. You are doing this to feel better about yourself. You literally labeled the thread "girl I like has a deuce bag boyfriend", that does not sound like the talk of a man who is control of himself emotionally or in control of the relationship.
Where is this all going then BTW since you apparently have everything under control and can have your way with this girl anytime you want? Where are you attempting to lead this relationship with this girl??
Let's say you succeed and get her to leave the bad boyfriend, and he is now out of picture completely, are you two going to have anything left to actually talk about?????????
Putting my own needs and desires aside is called being kind, not everything is about what YOU GAIN in life. With relationships I get that you think I'm being overly nice and i should consider what i want, but I am always straight forward regardless of how nuch I offend her and she knows it. She has 0 control over my actions. I have the upper hand because that loser is out of state, not going anywhere in life, half my size, and lacks all work ethic. If i don't want to be friendzoned and i want to get sexual, then I will simple as that. I posted this for different perspectives, not because i am venting my frustration.
Haha, this is equivalent to the jealous chick's "Ugh, why is he with her? She's so not pretty."
No, you won't. Not if you're gullible enough to be proud of the 'I told my mom about you/Why can't all guys be like you' nonsense. You're being used and are too...simplistic to see it.
Please come back and post as the changed man you'll be once you wake up, however many years that may take, White Knight Good Guy.
Says some old dude on a forum, i have the rest of my life ahead of me how about you. I don't need to be a changed man because you've proved i an already better one than you will ever be.
Says some old dude on a forum, i have the rest of my life ahead of me how about you. I don't need to be a changed man because you've proved i an already better one than you will ever be.
Ok you are the douche. I was trying to give you the benefit of the doubt up until now, before I just though you were a straight up beta male, but now realize you are a jealous beta male douche.
Ok you are the douche. I was trying to give you the benefit of the doubt up until now, before I just though you were a straight up beta male, but now realize you are a jealous beta male douche.
Jealous beat male? Good one, if i want something in life ill get it. I don't need some self proclaimed bs alpha to tell me what i can and can't do.
The plan is to not give up. Failure = 99% chance, but i am not ever going to change my beliefs or who i am because the world is covered in this shadow of superficial bs like "alpha and beta" "freindzone and sex addicts" at the end of the day if you work your ass off you will get what you want in life. I respect your opinion because atleast your not bashing me with irrational/immoral arguments.
The plan is to not give up. Failure = 99% chance, but i am not ever going to change my beliefs or who i am because the world is covered in this shadow of superficial bs like "alpha and beta" "freindzone and sex addicts" at the end of the day if you work your ass off you will get what you want in life. I respect your opinion because atleast your not bashing me with irrational/immoral arguments.
You just want to hear what you want to hear and you are being really sensitive in the process. Sometimes we all need a good kicking in the ass. I don't think anyone was being shallow on here..... Dating is a numbers game. You are just letting this girl use you. It happens to the best of us. Learn from it and move the F on. Don't give you heart away so easily. If this guy truly is the loser you say he is then what kind of respect does she have for herself to tolerate it? Move on.
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You just want to hear what you want to hear and you are being really sensitive in the process. Sometimes we all need a good kicking in the ass. I don't think anyone was being shallow on here..... Dating is a numbers game. You are just letting this girl use you. It happens to the best of us. Learn from it and move the F on. Don't give you heart away so easily. If this guy truly is the loser you say he is then what kind of respect does she have for herself to tolerate it? Move on.
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