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Old 05-23-2017, 07:33 PM
 
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You're in the friend zone and have sealed your fate. Move on.
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Old 05-23-2017, 07:53 PM
 
Location: Avignon, France
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Lol, Honestly though.

I'd rather date a bad boy than a sad boy. ( guys that constantly complain about women on social media such as ...... well such as here on the CD.) Most of the self proclaimed " nice guys" I have dated ...have pretty much been everything but " nice".
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Old 05-23-2017, 08:05 PM
 
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I'd rather date a bad boy than a sad boy. ( guys that constantly complain about women on social media such as ...... well such as here on the CD.) Most of the self proclaimed " nice guys" I have dated ...have pretty much been everything but " nice".
I mean I agree with you, I am not miserable and sobbing around her XD (or in general). I mean "Bad Boys" as in guys who are literally only out to manipulate girls for sex and really don't want any meaning in their lives whatsoever, they just want to be able to say they have slept with "x" amount girls. This type of guy usually doesn't pay for dinner when he takes you out(doesn't have a job anyways) and doesn't talk about anything meaningful or important because their lives are defined by their own immaturity. When I want to be with someone, it's because I respect them and their decisions (probably contradictory to this post, but whatever).
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Old 05-23-2017, 08:07 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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I'm just a Random Dude making a random point and trying not to be obvious......



So you want to date this chick that is so dumb, that she tells you how much of jerk her BF, and how he is a horrible person, but she stays with him.

And you are so dumb that you want a woman like her.
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Old 05-23-2017, 08:13 PM
 
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I'm just a Random Dude making a random point and trying not to be obvious......



So you want to date this chick that is so dumb, that she tells you how much of jerk her BF, and how he is a horrible person, but she stays with him.

And you are so dumb that you want a woman like her.
Well played XD
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Old 05-23-2017, 08:20 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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I mean I agree with you, I am not miserable and sobbing around her XD (or in general). I mean "Bad Boys" as in guys who are literally only out to manipulate girls for sex and really don't want any meaning in their lives whatsoever, they just want to be able to say they have slept with "x" amount girls. This type of guy usually doesn't pay for dinner when he takes you out(doesn't have a job anyways) and doesn't talk about anything meaningful or important because their lives are defined by their own immaturity. When I want to be with someone, it's because I respect them and their decisions (probably contradictory to this post, but whatever).
Ha yes indeed! ( last bit of course mate )

Yes it's not nice to witness but assuming the above IS gospel and correct sure he's in the wrong but who's worse him or her for standing for it and letting him get away with it?

Personally I can't see too many sane people standing for it so you sure you're not over exaggerating?
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Old 05-23-2017, 08:27 PM
 
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Ha yes indeed! ( last bit of course mate )

Yes it's not nice to witness but assuming the above IS gospel and correct sure he's in the wrong but who's worse him or her for standing for it and letting him get away with it?

Personally I can't see too many sane people standing for it so you sure you're not over exaggerating?
Yeah, I am not exaggerating at all XD. That's why I posted this, because like you said any sane person would have ended it by now. She's definitely got her fair share of problems no doubt.
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Old 05-23-2017, 08:31 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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Yeah, I am not exaggerating at all XD. That's why I posted this, because like you said any sane person would have ended it by now. She's definitely got her fair share of problems no doubt.
Ok then if that's the case I've got to ask then why you're so interested in her mate?

Either way if you're holding a torch for her I don't think this would end well for you buddy
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Old 05-23-2017, 08:34 PM
 
Location: Northern Maine
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If the situation was reversed, if you were the boyfriend and he was you....

she would be badmouthing you to him.
There are many women like that, they find dupes who will fall for their game.
They are dishonest and rarely change.

Its up to you.
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Old 05-23-2017, 08:37 PM
 
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Ok then if that's the case I've got to ask then why you're so interested in her mate?

Either way if you're holding a torch for her I don't think this would end well for you buddy
I mean there's a lot of good things about her too that I haven't gone in depth about. My original post is definitely a negative perspective of her overall (which in itself is probably not a good sign XD). There's a lot of good in her too, she genuinely wants to do the right thing, she just hasn't matured enough to realize what she really wants in life and doesn't really know how to hold her own ground if that makes sense. You definitely make some good points though.
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