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Old 10-13-2017, 08:57 PM
 
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Then she should've had enough COURAGE and RESPECT and DECENCY to have been 100% HONEST with you. If YOU don't feel that she led you on, then whatevs, that's on YOU for your discretion. But, in my opinion, there's NEVER *any* viable excuse to lead someone to believe something that you're perpetuating that is not - in fact - the God's honest truth.

I'd rather stay SINGLE forever than to deal with dishonest, self-serving and deceptive people who only care about what THEY can eek out of a dating situation or (God forbid) a relationship instead of being DECENT and CARING enough of a HUMAN BEING to be HONEST with the person who is into them.
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^^^^^^ Wow... I guess I was right. You must have had a horrible experience to be so hostile.
Either that, or is just tired of the crap... or both.
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Old 10-13-2017, 09:02 PM
 
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And the reality is that I don't want to be right. I actually want to be wrong. People are just wishy washy with their feelings, primarily because there's a plethora of people available on any dating site. It doesn't mean that you want to date them, but the option is out there. The options are what I think men and women are drawn too, not that there's any longevity to those options. The current dating climate and market really allows users to be awfully nit picky about frivolous things that don't matter in the grand scheme of things.
Definitely a lot of flightiness in the dating world. There seems to be a lot of factors involved. A lot of them are online I believe.
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Old 10-14-2017, 10:00 PM
 
Location: Middle America
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Then she should've had enough COURAGE and RESPECT and DECENCY to have been 100% HONEST with you. If YOU don't feel that she led you on, then whatevs, that's on YOU for your discretion. But, in my opinion, there's NEVER *any* viable excuse to lead someone to believe something that you're perpetuating that is not - in fact - the God's honest truth.

I'd rather stay SINGLE forever than to deal with dishonest, self-serving and deceptive people who only care about what THEY can eek out of a dating situation or (God forbid) a relationship instead of being DECENT and CARING enough of a HUMAN BEING to be HONEST with the person who is into them.
They hung out, what, a couple of times, and live in different states.

It seems like you're overreacting. The person actually affected, here is nowhere near your level of hostility.
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Old 10-15-2017, 09:49 AM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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They hung out, what, a couple of times, and live in different states.

It seems like you're overreacting. The person actually affected, here is nowhere near your level of hostility.
I appreciate this TR. While I am pretty bummed and a little upset at myself that this didn't work out or I didn't pull the plug on this earlier, it's happened and time to move on.
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