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At this point it would be best to just leave him alone and stop trying to communicate. You've already sent him texts and emails and he has not responded. For your own sake I think it's time to just cut bait. Regardless of what he wants or wanted he's not acting like a friend and that's pretty much the signal that it's over.
My take is that he wants to remain friends so he's putting some distance back into the relationship. Having sex and getting together again a day or two later, I'm going to be wanting/thinking about sex again even if I know it's not good for the friendship. Let a couple weeks go by and it's easier to be around the person without thinking about that, too much at least.
I absolutely believe friends can remain friends post-sex but it does change things.
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Originally Posted by timberline742
He's feeling awkward. Give him space. You'll reconnect. No biggie. Some times people get weirded out by casual sex (esp the first time with someone), just give them space and don't push, people that are really friends reconnect in time.
Never, ever underestimate what lengths a man will go to in order to get a little tail.
Meh, maybe, back when I was single I'd probably wait a month, if it's gonna happen a month would about ass long as I would wait. If I were single again, I probably give it the same amount of time. Sounds a little cold probably but it's way better than some guys who expect sex the first night. LOL.
It wasn't a diss. I'm sure you have slept with someone but didn't really enjoy it? It doesn't mean something is wrong with the person. Probably it was a lack of sexual compatibility. Guys are more open to transactional relationships with women, hence my response.
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What could you have possibly gleaned from the OP to come up with this bit of insight???
Speculation. I've been with women and felt like that on a few occasions. Who knows how many of them feel the same way about me.
It wasn't a diss. I'm sure you have slept with someone but didn't really enjoy it? It doesn't mean something is wrong with the person. Probably it was a lack of sexual compatibility. Guys are more open to transactional relationships with women, hence my response.
Sure, I get it. I just figure we all know that's a possibility but no one really wants to say it out loud to the OP.
The way she described the experience, though, he was pretty into it.
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