Is she being unreasonable?

[canadiangirl_2015]

That whole thing wasn't a good idea. You have kids, you don't uproot their life like that so quickly. You should date someone for at least 2 years before even considering moving in together. If you ever do. Blended families are not easy on anyone, especially the kids.

[Sassybluesy]

I'm curious...even though you didn't say, I'm getting a feeling this is a long distance relationship? I'm not sure what makes me think that.


Also...they weren't going to move in after 2 months. They started talking about moving in together after 2 months. Apparently the original move in date would've been nearly a year after talking about it.


Now...this would've put me off, if you'd said this to me. " I told her I wanted to push the move in date back to the following summer to give us more time to adjust to the idea of living together"

It would make me wonder if I'm wasting my time. And honestly...I would probably react much like your GF. You dangled a carrot, and then kind of yanked it away.


I'm not laying blame really...you were trying to do what's best.


(I'm thinking the lack of communication might be why I'm wondering if this was an LTR.)

[codergirl]

She was being unreasonable.Sometimes people just don't want to listen to common sense..