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Sorry to hear about your ill family member godspeed in his/her recovery.
It seems, hes being very selfish and not very understanding. Is this a person you would want to marry?
Thank you!! You are right. If he isn't understand at all now then he never will be. He seems to only think about himself. He's so angry lately, it's like he hates me all of a sudden because all he did this week is pick at my flaws and complain about me but yet wants to know if we will settle down soon and exactly which month. I care about him but I now know that he isn't the one for me. Still silly me doesn't feel like letting him go just yet because when I do see him I enjoy his company. In a way I feel like he was the only thing keeping me sane lately. I feel embarrassed to say this but it's true. I don't know why he's so moody and rude lately but I now know that he isn't someone I could be with in the long run.
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Thank you!! You are right. If he isn't understand at all now then he never will be. He seems to only think about himself. He's so angry lately, it's like he hates me all of a sudden because all he did this week is pick at my flaws and complain about me but yet wants to know if we will settle down soon and exactly which month. I care about him but I now know that he isn't the one for me. Still silly me doesn't feel like letting him go just yet because when I do see him I enjoy his company. In a way I feel like he was the only thing keeping me sane lately. I feel embarrassed to say this but it's true. I don't know why he's so moody and rude lately but I now know that he isn't someone I could be with in the long run.
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It takes courage and soul searching to find your inter self-esteem. Don't be afraid thinking you cant find someone better; you can and you will.
It takes courage and soul searching to find your inter self-esteem. Don't be afraid thinking you cant find someone better; you can and you will.
Thanks! I guess I can't help but feel at my lowest right now since I have to deal with so much crap lately. If I wasn't dealing with all of this then I would have walked away easily. Either way we are gonna stop talking by sometime this week. He seemes so angry and fed up while I'm starting to lose my patience. I have enough on my plate to deal with him bickering, that's just extra stress for me.
No, I don't give other chances. If I've decided it's time for her to go, I had great reasons and thought about it for days or at least a week first. The analysis is done, time for the deep cut, and once severed I'm out of there pretty light-hearted at doing what needed done.
When I'm the dumped, they don't give me one either. Done is done, see above. Nor do I ask for one. I always figured once women were done, they were really done even more than men. True or not, that's my observation. To wit:
Once, in my mid-20s, I begged for a second chance. She doubled-down on how she wanted no further part of me. That was ...educational, to say the least.
Done is done. I know some people keep coming back, and sometimes the ex takes them. OK, whatever: that doesn't work for me. Clearly it does for others. I figure: there's always some other woman out there, and plenty of them. I hardly have a romantic bone in my body. Some of my friends try harder, w/mixed results.
I've noticed the eerie and highly disquieting trend of two close (male) friends trying to re-connect with wives who have dumped them, leading to divorce. Both failed miserably, in the short to mid-term. It was false hope that kept them going. When that hope dies, a part of their soul goes-with. Terrifying to behold. Ain't never going there myself, if possible.
It's painful, but you move on.
My ex-wife left me three years ago. I kind of saw it coming, 'cause we'd been fighting a lot in the two years prior and although I'd initiated counseling, she flat refused to go with me. After she left, several of my friends rallied around me and helped me to stay strong. I'll never forget their gesture - I'm indebted to them.
I've had 2 or 3 relationships since. One I ended (we weren't compatible); the other two ended abruptly (they ended). I was very hurt - just sat around moping. But eventually I knew that I had to move on. I drowned myself into my work, to get them as far out of my mind as possible. No, I wouldn't even THINK of taking them back, even if they crawled on their hands and knees, begging for forgiveness and another chance!
Fool me once, shame on you! Fool me twice...you know the rest.
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godspeed in his/her recovery.
I care about him but I now know that he isn't the one for me. Still silly me doesn't feel like letting him go just yet because when I do see him I enjoy his company. In a way I feel like he was the only thing keeping me sane lately. I feel embarrassed to say this but it's true. I don't know why he's so moody and rude lately but I now know that he isn't someone I could be with in the long run. 
I guess I can't help but feel at my lowest right now since I have to deal with so much crap lately. If I wasn't dealing with all of this then I would have walked away easily. Either way we are gonna stop talking by sometime this week. He seemes so angry and fed up while I'm starting to lose my patience. I have enough on my plate to deal with him bickering, that's just extra stress for me.
