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This is one thing that I actually don't have an issue with. I'm fine with paying for women on a first date, especially if we go to a sushi restaurant.
It's only money after all. Am I right?
A lot of guys who post on this forum don't see it that way. You have no idea the battles that have raged here, over that issue. 50+ page threads, ceaseless threads that suck the entire membership into their vortex, like a Black Hole. Yes, DistinguishedGent, it is the Topic From Hell, the Godzilla of topics! (Cue scary, dramatic soundtrack)
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A lot of guys who post on this forum don't see it that way. You have no idea the battles that have raged here, over that issue. 50+ page threads, ceaseless threads that suck the entire membership into its vortex, like a Black Hole.
Not every male poster here is as distinguished and gentlemanly as I am. So that is something to keep in mind.
This is one thing that I actually don't have an issue with. I'm fine with paying for women on a first date, especially if we go to a sushi restaurant.
It's only money after all. Am I right?
Yes I'm the same actually and agree but Ruth's right unfortunately many blokes on here make too big a thing of it and think by picking up the cheque they're signing their bloody life away or something!
With many people there's too much much emphasis and analysis on " who should do that or this " etc, instead of going with the flow and just going out and enjoying yourself!
As I said, I rarely approach anyone romantically.
I approach people, start conversations, and any number of things can happen from there.
For the record, I'm not omitting myself from the equation. I have, of course, elected to end relationships. Of course, I cannot say for certain, that those were the correct choices and that the relationships that I ended wouldn't have worked out better than relationships I continued. I can just say that I'm content with my choices.
And how do you choose which women to approach romantically and which to not approach romantically?
OP, it's a polite way of saying, no, without going into specifics. Does this happen to you often? That would be my concern if I were in your shoes. Otherwise, I'd let go of it.
Some women i met seem to not be about much, they dont act like they are into it but seem to be being the one that brings positive energy to the table. Some of these women seem to not be trying hard enough or they come with an excuse as to why they simply cant choose a man
From now on don't go out on a regular date. Meet her somewhere for a coffee or lunch. Keep it casual and don't spend a lot of money. If no chemistry, then you haven't spent a lot. She didn't want to end the date until you spent money on her meal and drinks. Typical.
Your use of bold characters and underlining betrays your true emotions.
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Awww. Once again you think you know me better than me.
No sense having a conversation with someone like that.
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Some women i met seem to not be about much, they dont act like they are into it but seem to be being the one that brings positive energy to the table. Some of these women seem to not be trying hard enough or they come with an excuse as to why they simply cant choose a man
I'm not being funny here but how old are you?
Maybe they've only matched your level of involvement? Meaning they feel you've not done enough?
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