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Does anyone understand some women, because i dont. I went on a date with a woman i met from online dating site. SHe seemed nice so we met at a restaurant, i paid for her meal. So when we met, she seemed to give off this energy that was a little negative, but as we talked more she seemed pretty cool. I asked her questions and she answered them well, i asked her if this whole thing is ok and she said yes it is. i was kind of looking the other way as if i could not think of much to say, but as time went on i started opening up. She started to seem cool as time went on, i asked her basic things and she seemed like she was not giving off bad vibes. but here is the thing, at the end of the date, she gave off this energy that was distant\negative. she said she has to go, i said ok see you. I texted her, and she said that she felt no chemistry and she did not want to go further and wishes me well, but it made no sense at all to me because she does not know me. she fails to see who i am and what i can do, it makes me think that she is going off of looks. i dont get it
Does anyone understand some women, because i dont. I went on a date with a woman i met from online dating site. SHe seemed nice so we met at a restaurant, i paid for her meal. So when we met, she seemed to give off this energy that was a little negative, but as we talked more she seemed pretty cool. I asked her questions and she answered them well, i asked her if this whole thing is ok and she said yes it is. i was kind of looking the other way as if i could not think of much to say, but as time went on i started opening up. She started to seem cool as time went on, i asked her basic things and she seemed like she was not giving off bad vibes. but here is the thing, at the end of the date, she gave off this energy that was distant\negative. she said she has to go, i said ok see you. I texted her, and she said that she felt no chemistry and she did not want to go further and wishes me well, but it made no sense at all to me because she does not know me. she fails to see who i am and what i can do, it makes me think that she is going off of looks. i dont get it
"Going off looks" would be just seeing a photo.
After spending an entire evening with you, she wasn't feeling it. That's all. She gave you a straightforward answer, and all you can do is accept it.
I put a lot less stock in first date chemistry than some do. I've known plenty of people (men and women) who I didn't connect with on any level until as much as some years later.
Of course, people aren't going to date someone for years hoping the chemistry will eventually show up.
If I'm attracted physically and she checks off some of the most important boxes, I'll go out with someone a few times to give a chance for the chemistry to develop. Others won't.
Some people generally know right away that a person isn't a match and move on. Others sometimes give someone a 2nd date to see if the chemistry improves.
Her negative energy at the end of the date would have probably had me realizing that there likely wouldn't be a 2nd date.
I put a lot less stock in first date chemistry than some do. I've known plenty of people (men and women) who I didn't connect with on any level until as much as some years later.
Of course, people aren't going to date someone for years hoping the chemistry will eventually show up.
If I'm attracted physically and she checks off some of the most important boxes, I'll go out with someone a few times to give a chance for the chemistry to develop. Others won't.
right! let me tell you this too, 95% of women that got to know me really liked me allot. the only thing is i have a hard time getting them to see me for who i am. i am not with them anymore because they are different kind of people, but they still liked me thoe. but at first they did not really show much, when i seen them again it was a different story.
Some people generally know right away that a person isn't a match and move on.
Her negative energy at the end of the date would have probably had me realizing that there likely wouldn't be a 2nd date.
i was not feeling it with some women in the past who i have met, but then again it was their fault. they were the ones that "Brought" negative vibes to the mix, not me!
Also, you cant know something like that that early, that is what makes me feel she is saying it for other reasons. also, she asked me did i have a car, i said no, it seems to me that might have struck a nerve!
yea but, her vibes were positive, also she still dont know me well also she lied about her vibes. also you cant be feelin it in such short of time
How did she lie? It appears she was honest with you which is good, at least she did not invest a lot of wasted time for both of you. Be grateful for the experience that was not completely awful and find someone else for a date.
You can't go by reactions from the 1st date. Both parties are being polite. She did give you a honest answer which is way better than dragging you out.
i dont feel she had to be perfect or try to make something happen if she did not want to. but what i am saying is, she does not know me well at all what so ever. Let me tell you this, i am a person who is truthful and sometimes i feel some women cant handle it or they dont like it for some reason sometimes too. some people say when you like i person its not rational and i think i might agree
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