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Originally Posted by Jobster
You need to take that word out of your vocabulary. What did I see that falls in line with this definition?
"a person who dislikes, despises, or is strongly prejudiced against women."
Pretty much all of your statements in your other thread indicated all three of the above. From your ownership of other women's bodies because you went on a date with them, to losing respect for them because they have consensual sex (even with you), and everything in between. The thread oozed with you not liking and not respecting women. You're entire view of what it is to be a "real dude" is in fact what misogyny looks like in society.
Pretty much all of your statements in your other thread indicated all three of the above. From your ownership of other women's bodies because you went on a date with them, to losing respect for them because they have consensual sex (even with you), and everything in between. The thread oozed with you not liking and respecting women. You're entire view of what it is to be a "real dude" is in fact what misogyny looks like in society.
Ownership?
Are you serious? You think I claim ownership because I don't like the girl that I'm dating and having sex with to also be dating other guys and having sex with them while I'm dating her?
That's just hygiene. I mean, really? Is this what society has come to? Wow. You can keep that. I'm not down with that lifestyle.
Who cares what I think? They can think the same thing. That's just critical thinking and nature. You think I'm just going to be a complacent idiots just because of some stupid word?
I'm telling you, while you're chasing after a girl and buying her gifts and acting real weak, some real dude is hitting that on the side, and he doesn't even really care about her.
Girls go for real dudes in real life. Girls do not want a push over weak dude that has no bass in his voice.
Your posts here seem rather combative, so I doubt the "real dude" thing is the reason you get backlash.
That's because of what people are advocating. I mean, since when has it become acceptable to be dating somebody, but still sleeping with other people?
And then I'm not allowed to judge somebody because of that?
Great.
That's why the divorce rate is so high or people end up in "open relationships," because the dude is too afraid to put his foot down early in the relationship and establish rules.
Basically what this entire thread boils down to is the OP is confused, inexperienced and clingy. The guy she was after is a beta, tool. As to all the other arguing between posters toward the end, just petty banter. Jobster, everybody was hating on you saying you come off as combative and misogynistic, I didn't see that at all. You just come off as an alpha. End of thread, unless that tool Jonesyg has something else pointless to say. OP for future reference, sometimes with these beta dudes that pervade our modern metrosexual society, you have to be aggressive with them if you want something more than just a friend.
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