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It's probably time to speak of and think about the people you want to date as women. I'm not busting your ***** because a couple of years earlier and girls was probably still accurate. But a woman your age will likely take note of how you refer to them, and maybe not positively.
Maybe more importantly, girls, like boys, are kind of a pain in the a$$. Women not so much. How you speak helps shape how you think and vice versa, and how you think definitely shapes how you see the world. But I digress. Anyway, unless you're trying to commit a crime, you're aiming to date women.
I didn't understand what you meant by your last sentence?
This is what I don't get about the "No one likes me because I'm ugly" posts. Let's be honest, most people are shallow and even if they really are ugly, they try to go for someone who they find physically attractive. If you are ugly, date other ugly people. That's the reality.
This is what I don't get about the "No one likes me because I'm ugly" posts. Let's be honest, most people are shallow and even if they really are ugly, they try to go for someone who they find physically attractive. If you are ugly, date other ugly people. That's the reality.
You said it yourself. Even if they are ugly, they won't settle for just any guy. You already said it yourself.
That's me
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Learn to cook. Volunteer with old people, kids or animals. Work on appearing happy go lucky, even if you don't feel that way. Be sincere. Ask women out even if you get turned down. It gets easier like anything else. Practice, practice, practice. If you put your heart into doing these things you'll find a woman. Believe me.
Looks is usually #2 or #3 or even lower on their list in what they look for in a guy. #1 is confidence.
Oh, that magical word again
The guy obviously doesn't feel good about himself so obviously there is no way there could be any confidence. Perhaps genuinely accepting who you are may be helpful. As in, embracing your weaknesses so as no one could use them against you. Not caring about those things could be liberating if there is no other way to actually address/correct them.
You aren't an ugly man at all OP. You are kind of an average looking guy (which is fine, most of us are average by definition. I'm an average looking woman). But you do look sad, maybe depressed--such emotions can also be mistaken for anger. Honestly, that's what's probably what's scaring women away. I mean, would you want to be around a person who looked sad and/or angry? I know it's probably hard because it's a Cacth-22, you are sad because you are unlucky in love, but you are unlucky in love because you are sad.
Perhaps the best thing you can do for yourself is forget women as best you can. Find something in life you can control that will make life more fulfilling and happy (such as tackle a new career path or subject at school, do some charity work that helps others and can help give you a sense of purpose and fulfill the desire to be needed, set your mind to solving a problem in your community that you think needs to be fixed). Just something to get yourself out of a rut of self pity because it's not doing you any favors in life.
the level of your attractiveness is found right in between your ears, bud.
So True........ It's an every day battle.... There is such thing as being realistic too though... An obese fat women with yellow teeth isn't going to get with Prince Charming even if she does feel attractive in her own mind.....
In all those years, how many women have you asked out?
Probably around 10
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