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Old 06-07-2017, 09:15 AM
 
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Does he get his son on the weekends often? Is that part of the reason no weekend dates, to this point?
Yes, he got his son every other weekend, and on the one weekend he was free I was travelling. Then the other one he was on business trip. And this weekend he will travel again, that is why it never worked out. Last weekend he got his son again, but he always texted me a lot of details during the weekends, so I didn't really doubt he has been lying. I don't know. Maybe I am wrong.
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Old 06-07-2017, 09:25 AM
 
Location: Portsmouth, VA
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I met a guy, we went out for a month(maybe 7 dates), the last two times we made out very very hot and he said he really wanted me. But I said I want our first time on a weekend so we can sleep over and have a casual and relaxing next morning.
But he just texted me that he didn't know how many nights like that he can take anymore. He said it was too painful for him.

What does that mean? Does that mean he doesn't want to see me again if I don't have sex with him?
Should I have sex with him? If i do, I feel like I comprise my rule to keep a man, which makes me sad but I do enjoy spending time with him and I am never really object to have sex with him.
Too painful for him; lmao!

Get yourself a real man and get out of that situation right now, while you still can.
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Old 06-07-2017, 09:30 AM
 
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Too painful for him; lmao!

Get yourself a real man and get out of that situation right now, while you still can.
Why?
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Old 06-07-2017, 09:44 AM
 
Location: Portsmouth, VA
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Why?
Because if _ means that much to him, how much does he really care about you? And what does it say about his maturity level?
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Old 06-07-2017, 09:47 AM
 
Location: California side of the Sierras
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Not yet, since we met, either he was on business trip or I was travelling during weekends
Smells funny to me.
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Old 06-07-2017, 09:52 AM
 
Location: New Yawk
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Smells funny to me.
Ditto. This is the plot line of literally every naive-young-woman-finds-out-her-lover-is-married movie.
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Old 06-07-2017, 09:54 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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OP, how old are you, and have you had any serious sexual relationships?
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Old 06-07-2017, 10:03 AM
 
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I am not very young but only had one long serious relationship,
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Old 06-07-2017, 10:30 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I am not very young but only had one long serious relationship,
How old are you?

So you've had sex?
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Old 06-07-2017, 10:54 AM
 
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I am getting the sense that this is the coupling of a much older man and a naive teenager.
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