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Old 06-13-2017, 05:34 PM
 
Location: NNJ
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Wow, it doesn't sound like the woman gets any actual sexual pleasure out of her "encounter" with a guy in a porn movie but it sure sounds like the guy always gets sexual pleasure from it lol
Considering a female can fake it... But a male actor cannot fake a money shot... Lol

BTW.. Behind the scenes videos make filming porn look really silly.. Really awkward looking. Certainly doesn't seem as enjoyable as in real life

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Old 06-13-2017, 05:52 PM
 
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Considering a female can fake it... But a male actor cannot fake a money shot... Lol

BTW.. Behind the scenes videos make filming porn look really silly.. Really awkward looking. Certainly doesn't seem as enjoyable as in real life
A money shot?

Never mind...I don't want to know lol
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Old 06-13-2017, 06:35 PM
 
Location: The point of no return, er, NorCal
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Of course women are being harmed! 90% of mainstream porn shows absolutely no foreplay for the woman...oh right, she gets to do stuff to him while he won't lay a finger or tongue on her. Then after 10 minutes of that she's ready to go for 30 min. of the old in out in a half dozen positions ending with goo on her face. So women expect NO consideration from men, and certainly have no expectation of culminating pleasure. Instead as usual, they service men and get their pleasure from that - but that's life, why should porn or real life sex be any different. And when men constantly push women to partake, how can they not think that's what men want?

Oh sure, there are exceptions...but not many.
"Goo on her face." /dead

Girllllll, my immediate thought was all the 20-something dudes who just suck at actual intimacy because they're so focused on performing and recreating what they see in porn, including the goo face. A lot of the younger ones (<35) need to do some learning. A lot of learning.
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Old 06-13-2017, 06:40 PM
 
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bukkake originated from Japan. As I said... Japanese porn is very much male dominated.

I've yet to meet a woman who actually liked having "it" land on anywhere close to the face... ugh. Royal PITA to get out of hair. Not my style. Certainly no idea why a man would want to do that to their SO.
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Old 06-13-2017, 06:56 PM
 
Location: Central IL
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Considering that 86 percent of video porn is consumed by men, most porn will cater to it. Action movies are also very popular with men... We don't expect them to be a depiction of real nor have scenes that are reminiscent of chick flicks.

Similarly, we don't expect erotica novels to cater to men as they are the minority in that market.

Simple business...

They do exist porn that are more attractive towards women... I personally like them more... Not many... Then again they are tapping in a smaller market

I don't think they intend to alienate women.... Simply giving the market what it demands.

You wanna see porn that caters to men? Check out portal from the Japanese market.


I find Germans are pretty cool with porn... They are some interesting genres from them that place women in dominant situations


Of course there are genres of porn that do depict women in lowly ways... Then again... Same in other films. Not really my type.
I didn't say what MY expectations were regarding the marketing of porn...but it's good to hear that the market is doing so well at wish fulfillment - that in itself is informative.

I'm not sure how porn is so profitable unless men are actually gullible enough to click on those ads that say this ugly next door neighbor is ready and wants them, right NOW...so yeah, it might take more to get money out of women!

And I don't know that women want to be dominant in most situations OR submissive...I think they'd love to be considered and pleasured as part of it!
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Old 06-13-2017, 07:30 PM
 
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I'm not sure how porn is so profitable unless men are actually gullible enough to click on those ads
I've read figures between 12-15 billion in the US alone. The US is one of the largest providers/producers of pornography consumed by people all over the world. Its not ads but subscriptions.. mostly to networks that provide single access to "portals" that offer a variety of genres.

I hear the other part is web cam stuff.... I hear women with a good personality and looks can generate a descent income with nothing but their webcam in the safety of their own home.

A couple of my girl friends has a subscription to Suicide Girls.. not really pornography in the sense of viewing sex but more like nude pinups for girls with alternative styles. The same two that like to be a little dominant with their lovers... not in the sense of S&M but they love to "lead" in bed. So some do... and some don't.... all preferences.
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Old 06-13-2017, 08:15 PM
 
Location: Central IL
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Considering a female can fake it... But a male actor cannot fake a money shot... Lol

BTW.. Behind the scenes videos make filming porn look really silly.. Really awkward looking. Certainly doesn't seem as enjoyable as in real life
I really don't care if the actors have fun or not...my guess is that it's a job. I mean if the guy needs a fluffer, what does that say? What's pathetic is the women rarely even act as though they're having much fun but they do manage to make the fakest sounds...maybe that's a secret message to all the women who can immediately spot it but men can't?
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Old 06-13-2017, 09:41 PM
 
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I really don't care if the actors have fun or not...my guess is that it's a job. I mean if the guy needs a fluffer, what does that say? What's pathetic is the women rarely even act as though they're having much fun but they do manage to make the fakest sounds...maybe that's a secret message to all the women who can immediately spot it but men can't?
I have not seen fluffer in the behind the scenes vids... Only in the group or gang sex stuff to keep things ready..

Not all of porn is over the top acting... Mostly low budget gonzo that is streamed in short clips on free sites. There is a genre of amateur couples performing which are usually way more erotic.

I was commenting towards the posts that the actors get all the fun at the expense of females being ignored. ... In reality Its probably just a job for both. The behind the scenes clips I have seen certainly do not seem like they are simply left to enjoy themselves. However there has to be something there for a male to perform to a money shot... Not as easy to fake a male money shot... Not too early and not too late. No idea how they do it.. Female's can always fake it... Or at least try.
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Old 06-14-2017, 08:11 AM
 
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I've read figures between 12-15 billion in the US alone. The US is one of the largest providers/producers of pornography consumed by people all over the world. Its not ads but subscriptions.. mostly to networks that provide single access to "portals" that offer a variety of genres.

I hear the other part is web cam stuff.... I hear women with a good personality and looks can generate a descent income with nothing but their webcam in the safety of their own home.

A couple of my girl friends has a subscription to Suicide Girls.. not really pornography in the sense of viewing sex but more like nude pinups for girls with alternative styles. The same two that like to be a little dominant with their lovers... not in the sense of S&M but they love to "lead" in bed. So some do... and some don't.... all preferences.
I am willing to bet that is because prostitution is illegal in most of the US...
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Old 06-14-2017, 08:16 AM
 
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Of course women are being harmed! 90% of mainstream porn shows absolutely no foreplay for the woman...oh right, she gets to do stuff to him while he won't lay a finger or tongue on her. Then after 10 minutes of that she's ready to go for 30 min. of the old in out in a half dozen positions ending with goo on her face. So women expect NO consideration from men, and certainly have no expectation of culminating pleasure. Instead as usual, they service men and get their pleasure from that - but that's life, why should porn or real life sex be any different. And when men constantly push women to partake, how can they not think that's what men want?

Oh sure, there are exceptions...but not many.
Maybe you haven't watched enough porn ?? What you are describing is a stereotype. There is a lot of variety and certainly plenty of videos that show men pleasuring a woman. Of course I have no idea if she is faking it or not, it is hard to tell about women...
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