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Old 10-04-2017, 03:06 AM
 
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Even if i've already broke up with my ex. But her words are unforgettable. As it mentioned above, there are more words she told me that makes me cringe. In my LDR with her, She had visited me in my country for few times for the first few months we being together. After those months, i was planning to visit her by my own to give her a surprise but she told me that she wont be with me due to her tight busy schedule of full time ministry and yes.. she is a christian. but when this happened, she put the blame on me that i have no heart to visit her. So my parents and i called her that we want to visit her and her parents and guess what? she told us that we cant visit her at all coz not available. what else? she put the blame on us again. Yet, she still wants to continue our relationship because she doesnt wnt to be alone. what does that mean?

P.S relationship is over . just want to knwo that is that meaning. Btw, i am a malaysian and she is a vietnamese
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Old 10-04-2017, 03:45 AM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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Sadly, it sounds like she is not interested to see you at her home. Perhaps she was hiding something, or lied about her circumstances, and of course when she visited you - i am sure she had a good time and you were spending money to make her stay memorable and fun. Clearly she don't want or can't offer you the same.
Be glad that the relationship is over.
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Old 10-04-2017, 03:46 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Don't put too much thought into it. Its over. Move on.
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Old 10-04-2017, 06:35 AM
 
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Someone making you cringe is a very serious offense. A big sign to move on.
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Old 10-04-2017, 08:23 AM
 
Location: SoCal again
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Even if i've already broke up with my ex. But her words are unforgettable. As it mentioned above, there are more words she told me that makes me cringe. In my LDR with her, She had visited me in my country for few times for the first few months we being together. After those months, i was planning to visit her by my own to give her a surprise but she told me that she wont be with me due to her tight busy schedule of full time ministry and yes.. she is a christian. but when this happened, she put the blame on me that i have no heart to visit her. So my parents and i called her that we want to visit her and her parents and guess what? she told us that we cant visit her at all coz not available. what else? she put the blame on us again. Yet, she still wants to continue our relationship because she doesnt wnt to be alone. what does that mean?

P.S relationship is over . just want to knwo that is that meaning. Btw, i am a malaysian and she is a vietnamese
That means her life was more fun waking up to a nice text. Text throughout the day when she feels lonely. Going to bed with a nice text from you makes her feel better.


Totally normal nowadays.


Doesn't mean she loves you. Doesn't mean she wants a relationship.
It just means she likes the attention. You are easily replacable.
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Old 10-04-2017, 09:35 AM
 
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Shes seeing someone else tat she is more attracted to, and is local, but she cant have a relationship with him, so shes looking for attention from you until he calls.
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