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Maybe so, in a gay world. It has been reality for most men since time in memorial in a hetero-sexual world.
Like the OP?
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Originally Posted by Gregfloripa
For me the biggest problem in dating was always approaching a girl during the day. I would always get very nervous because I thought of a million things that could go wrong or that I would run out of things to say so I would talk myself out of it.
and dozens of other men that post similar threads about how difficult it is for them to approach. I think most men have difficulties approaching women; the differentiator is whether or not they can get past it.
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You only skim read, if you say I never participated in this reality, lol.
Thanks for the chat though.
Gay world is no different. You have people who prefer to be passive and those that choose the pursue. Your original premise was that one should be the pursued before making such judgements.
I'm simply stating you should take your own advice.
No... you clearly did not participate in this "reality. If you did any amount of pursuing your conclusions wouldn't be made.... certainly not try to reach to the whole wolves and rabbit narrative .
I see women all the time in the supermarket I would like to approach. Its hard to "strut" around and look cool carrying a 12 pack of toilet paper.
Very true, but maybe if you did approach, say hi, you might find you are cooler looking than you might think. What's going to happen, you go home with just your 12 pack of TP? Oh well, you were going to do that anyway, right?
I do - to a point. I'm not hooking or anything, lol. But why spend months dancing all around someone and never once say, "Hi!" Seems strange, and makes me think the guy has 'issues'.
If a man wants to catch a fish, he can't be afraid to go in a store and ask for bait, can he? Would he just stand around outside the bait shop and wait for a worm to willingly jump on his hook??
I guess I'm just too old-fashioned, but as a woman, I'm not doing the 'pulling'. At a bare minimum, if someone wants to sample my milkshake, he's going to have be brave enough to come into MY yard, and not just dance around outside the fence.
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Originally Posted by MillennialUrbanist
It's 2017; men's requirements increased, just as women's did earlier. Today, your milkshake has to have enough intriguing qualities to bring the boys to the yard in the first place. You can't be, like, "it's better than yours" by the sole virtue of it being your milkshake. Even if you're thinking: "Damn right, it's better than yours." But if you can teach them, it's fine that you have to charge.
You guys nailed it!
Oh, can us guy's use the "What are you gay?!" After a rejection like many women used on me after I turned them away? Lol
Oh, can us guy's use the "What are you gay?!" After a rejection like many women used on me after I turned them away? Lol
I don't know, but I once heard a guy say, "Come back, baby! I'll turn you back to men." After having been rejected by a random stranger he had hit on. I'm not sure it was the coolest thing he could have said, but it was pretty funny nonetheless.
Mine is men who seem to want to be in a relationship and then they don't but they don't actually break it off but force me to. Like the dates get further apart and "gosh darn I'm going to be busy the next 3 weeks" but they don't break up. Then I do and they act all pissed or hurt.
My biggest problem lately has been meeting girls who have major ex issues and can't let go of the past. It's like "I'm my own person, stop comparing me with everything your ex did".
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