To the males on CD do you prefer independent or clingy woman ?

[bellakin123]

Originally Posted by IHOP

Being needed is sexy...
Being needy is NOT!


HUGE difference.

Yep and those who understand the term "being needed" know that it has nothing to do with clinginess, material things, etc.

[nc17]

Originally Posted by Bryant17

So you want a woman that knows where you are every minute of every day? Who must go with you everywhere but work? Not me, I don't want to be suffocated.

If I really love and get along with the woman, I probably wouldn't mind. It becomes a problem when you don't have specific pastimes or points of view in common, and other person doesn't respect that. Clingy isn't the same thing as controlling, and independent personalities can also manipulate and control their partner.

[Bryant17]

Yes, it is the same. That's why it's called clingy. They cling to you.

[TomR82]

Originally Posted by nc17

If I really love and get along with the woman, I probably wouldn't mind. It becomes a problem when you don't have specific pastimes or points of view in common, and other person doesn't respect that. Clingy isn't the same thing as controlling, and independent personalities can also manipulate and control their partner.

Completely agree with that. I love to spend as much time as possible with my girlfriend because we both work really much, so we do almost everything together. But it is because we love to spend our time together and have mostly the same interests. But I know that when we do something without the other, then she won't text me all the time or try to control what I am doing. That would be a big problem for me!