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Old 10-19-2017, 02:50 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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Of course, there are a lot of truths in stereotypes. That's how they start.

But you can't apply stereotypes to individuals, that's when problems start.
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Old 10-19-2017, 03:26 PM
 
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Of course, there are a lot of truths in stereotypes. That's how they start.

But you can't apply stereotypes to individuals, that's when problems start.
The second part is more true than the first.
 
Old 10-19-2017, 03:42 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Meh, possibly.

If there is a bump in the night unless she's an ex-marine or a MMA fighter the guy still has to go check it out.

Guys still have to take out the trash, guys tend to not listen as well as they should to their wives, guys tend to leave the toilet lid up too much.

Women downplay their partner count, men play up their partner count.
 
Old 10-19-2017, 03:47 PM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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guys tend to leave the toilet lid up too much. .

Well who else would leave it up? If once is too much, only guys are going to be guilty of it anyway. I'm not sure what you listed would be a stereotype anyway, not as you phrased it.

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Old 10-21-2017, 03:51 AM
 
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Off the top of my head, from experience / observation :


I have found that women who claim to be highly intelligent are almost always dumb, arrogant, lack common sense and make poor life choices and lack personal accountability.

Women who have sex with lots of men are no good at bonding, and are often terrible at sex. Perhaps the two are linked.

Attraction increases vastly when sex roles are adhered to.

Men are usually more empathetic than women (although women do tend to have a bit more empathy towards kids).
 
Old 10-21-2017, 04:21 AM
 
Location: Sector 001
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Yes, men are very visual, and put a lot of importance in looks, weight, figure, etc. Woman can be as well, but some women put a LOT of importance into how much money a guy makes, or has. I have met several very good looking, but gold digger type women. I went on a date once with a nurse, who had a good job, etc, but when she found out I still had significant alimony payments, she literally asked the waitress for our check, and we left. I never saw her again, and never wanted to.

Personality trumps looks or money in the end. Men who study personal development know this. You can be pudgy and average looking if you know how to have a conversation you will get her every time.

If she took the check that quickly she just wasn't that into you. They like the bad boys, humor, and men with passion. If you are lacking passion, if you talk monotone and only talk about yourself, or don't know how to be playful and tease her, you will have a harder time at it. There are lots of little things you can do to improve your success rate. Basically it comes down to stimulating a wide range of her emotions. You're not gonna do that with money, or being a beta or provider male. Looks will help, but will only get you so far.




https://youtu.be/JoRlb6xcymA?t=400

The bottom link will start you around the 7 minute mark.


The 2 universal truths have already been mentioned... men will have sex with anything without needing attachment, and women want emotional stimulation before sex. There are exceptions to this but in general these two rules are paramount.

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Old 10-21-2017, 05:38 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Off the top of my head, from experience / observation :


I have found that women who claim to be highly intelligent are almost always dumb, arrogant, lack common sense and make poor life choices and lack personal accountability.

Women who have sex with lots of men are no good at bonding, and are often terrible at sex. Perhaps the two are linked.

Attraction increases vastly when sex roles are adhered to.

Men are usually more empathetic than women (although women do tend to have a bit more empathy towards kids).

I'm sorry, I thought this was about stereotypes, not your personal beliefs and opinions.

I guess I was wrong.
 
Old 10-21-2017, 05:53 AM
 
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I'm sorry
That's ok.
 
Old 10-21-2017, 08:22 AM
 
Location: The point of no return, er, NorCal
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I'm sorry, I thought this was about stereotypes, not your personal beliefs and opinions.

I guess I was wrong.
That post made for a good chuckle. Delusional.
 
Old 10-21-2017, 10:28 AM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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Off the top of my head, from experience / observation :


I have found that women who claim to be highly intelligent are almost always dumb, arrogant, lack common sense and make poor life choices and lack personal accountability.

Women who have sex with lots of men are no good at bonding, and are often terrible at sex. Perhaps the two are linked.

Attraction increases vastly when sex roles are adhered to.

Men are usually more empathetic than women (although women do tend to have a bit more empathy towards kids).

This has nothing to do with stereotypes.
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