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There could be hundreds of reasons why she's doing it.
I had an "ex-crush" doing this to me a while ago. Not only would he like the pictures but he would go back and unlike them weeks sometimes, a month later. Weird. My friends think he was trying to get me to say something. I never reached out and neither did he. It's just stupid games in my opinion. If someone wants to say something, they will.
There could be hundreds of reasons why she's doing it.
I had an "ex-crush" doing this to me a while ago. Not only would he like the pictures but he would go back and unlike them weeks sometimes, a month later. Weird. My friends think he was trying to get me to say something. I never reached out and neither did he. It's just stupid games in my opinion. If someone wants to say something, they will.
If she was single, "games" would he more understandable. But not when she's living with her provider boyfriend whom impregnated her and she's awaiting her 2nd born. Right?
If she was single, "games" would he more understandable. But not when she's living with her provider boyfriend whom impregnated her and she's awaiting her 2nd born. Right?
Just because a person is in a relationship doesn't mean they won't play games with other people.
Human beings have been doing that since the dawn of time. Regardless, it doesn't matter.
Just because a person is in a relationship doesn't mean they won't play games with other people.
Human beings have been doing that since the dawn of time. Regardless, it doesn't matter.
What exactly do you want the reason to be?
What do I want the reason to be? I'm asking what the reason was. You tell me why people would play games with ex lovers while in a relationship with somebody else.
A little backstory; We're both in our late 20s now. We were in a relationship several years ago, in our early 20s. She had a child who was an infant when we met. She broke up with the child's father shortly after the child was born. Which was when we met and started dating. I loved her very much (at the time) and I raised her kid from when she was an infant until she was about 3 years old, when we broke up. I proposed to her, but she ran from me when I proposed. She ended the relationship. It turns out-- she was in her "early 20s" stage and wanted to sleep around. So she broke up with me when I proposed, and did just that. Slept around. About a year or two later, she came crawling back to me (now wanting "stability".) But I had moved on and had a new girlfriend. This was about 4 or 5 years ago. Since then, she's subtly tried to pop back up into my life, here and there. Not too much, but she has subtly tried to in the past.
Fastfoward to now. She's in a relationship with a guy whom she's pregnant with his child and has moved in with him. This will be her 2nd child (from a 2nd father.) You would think there's no way she would be trying to get my attention now, right? Wrong. Months ago, she followed me on Instagram. I never bothered following her back. Sporadically, she will Like some of my pictures. Well, this past week, she's Liked about every picture I've uploaded. And they're all pictures of just me. She's clearly trying to grab my attention for one reason or another. I'm assuming she misses me and may be reminiscing on the old times...BUT SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND WHOM SHE GOT PREGNANT BY AND SHE'S MOVED INTO HIS HOME. I don't understand. If I was her boyfriend, I would be PISSED.
Does anybody with any female-knowledge understand the reasoning for this? Why do this if she's seemingly in a happy relationship?
What do I want the reason to be? I'm asking what the reason was. You tell me why people would play games with ex lovers while in a relationship with somebody else.
It's most definitely to say, "hey look, I'm here, miss me? Talk to me." I'd almost appreciate the effort, except I was cognizant that she was only doing it because her guy dumped her.
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If some of you say shes trying to put her foot in the door and get me back to take care of her and her kids, why would she be with this other guy? And no, I'm not trying to get her back. My question was why is she doing this?
Why haven’t you blocked her from your Facebook? That’d be the first thing I’d do after breaking up with someone.
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