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I was shown a site called "She's a homeWrecker" from a former coworker who saw one of my ex's on it.
I read the post had a good laugh then start reading other posts on the site, even did a search for homewreckers in my area(should not have done that).
It kinda started making me mad, I noticed that the many of these women were at the high end of the attractive scale in fact the vast majority were at least on the high end of the average scale.
Yes there are a few that were not conventionally attractive(if they were the sweet stuff on the side I don't want to even see what the wife looks like), but they were in the minority, but at least with them I can wrap my head around why they would go that route, when you don't get much attention from the opposite sex but crave it, (when someone does give you attention you will jump on it, if they are married or not). I have been tempted myself to say screw it when I get contacted by a married woman on a dating site, but I come to my senses before I hit send, because:
1. I can not bring myself to ruin another mans life, and create another man who feels like me.
2. even if I did get her to leave him I would never trust her and would spend the rest of our time together waiting for the day she betrays me.
It even got me thinking of my experiences on dating sites and app's those times when married women would contact me(I really hate that, but least the majority of women tend to admit that up front), I notice they tend to be more attractive on average than the single women that contact me, but I digress.
Why would women who have their pick of legions of single men why would love to have, them choose someone else's man?
I was shown a site called "She's a homeWrecker" from a former coworker who saw one of my ex's on it.
I read the post had a good laugh then start reading other posts on the site, even did a search for homewreckers in my area(should not have done that).
It kinda started making me mad, I noticed that the many of these women were at the high end of the attractive scale in fact the vast majority were at least on the high end of the average scale.
Yes there are a few that were not conventionally attractive(if they were the sweet stuff on the side I don't want to even see what the wife looks like), but they were in the minority, but at least with them I can wrap my head around why they would go that route, when you don't get much attention from the opposite sex but crave it, (when someone does give you attention you will jump on it, if they are married or not). I have been tempted myself to say screw it when I get contacted by a married woman on a dating site, but I come to my senses before I hit send, because:
1. I can not bring myself to ruin another mans life, and create another man who feels like me. 2. even if I did get her to leave him I would never trust her and would spend the rest of our time together waiting for the day she betrays me.
It even got me thinking of my experiences on dating sites and app's those times when married women would contact me(I really hate that, but least the majority of women tend to admit that up front), I notice they tend to be more attractive on average than the single women that contact me, but I digress.
Why would women who have their pick of legions of single men why would love to have, them choose someone else's man?
tons of reasons.
1. Pretty women can be desperate, too
2. They don't know there is a wife
3. He makes false promises
4. He says him and wife are just "room mates" or stay together for the kids only
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Originally Posted by cyphorx
I was shown a site called "She's a homeWrecker" from a former coworker who saw one of my ex's on it.
I read the post had a good laugh then start reading other posts on the site, even did a search for homewreckers in my area(should not have done that).
It kinda started making me mad, I noticed that the many of these women were at the high end of the attractive scale in fact the vast majority were at least on the high end of the average scale.
Yes there are a few that were not conventionally attractive(if they were the sweet stuff on the side I don't want to even see what the wife looks like), but they were in the minority, but at least with them I can wrap my head around why they would go that route, when you don't get much attention from the opposite sex but crave it, (when someone does give you attention you will jump on it, if they are married or not). I have been tempted myself to say screw it when I get contacted by a married woman on a dating site, but I come to my senses before I hit send, because:
1. I can not bring myself to ruin another mans life, and create another man who feels like me.
2. even if I did get her to leave him I would never trust her and would spend the rest of our time together waiting for the day she betrays me.
It even got me thinking of my experiences on dating sites and app's those times when married women would contact me(I really hate that, but least the majority of women tend to admit that up front), I notice they tend to be more attractive on average than the single women that contact me, but I digress.
Why would women who have their pick of legions of single men why would love to have, them choose someone else's man?
Because some of those "attractive" women - who have ZERO integrity & morals, who are conceited, narcissistic, full of themselves and are self-entitled hos - see it as a CHALLENGE to take away another woman's SO and to tear their lives apart. And a lot of the time, once they've achieved their goal and snag the two-timing husband/BF, they dump him and move on to the next married man.
It's good to see that you would have no part in that crap, and that's a VERY redeeming quality in a man; most guys would jump on that if they had the chance, because after all, it's an "option", and they wouldn't want to miss out on that, would they?
Because some of those "attractive" women - who have ZERO integrity & morals, who are conceited, narcissistic, full of themselves and are self-entitled hos - see it as a CHALLENGE to take away another woman's SO and to tear their lives apart. And a lot of the time, once they've achieved their goal and snag the two-timing husband/BF, they dump him and move on to the next married man.
I think a married man with plenty to lose, is more apt to cheat and leave his wife if the other woman is super attractive. not saying that's always the case but you don't see many homely sugar babies or side pieces lol
Same for a woman, if a married woman with plenty to lose is going to cheat she isn't going to pick a couch potato over a hot stud most of the time.
Yes I have seen it many times. I got way more attention when i was married(never cheated but was hit on a lot), than I ever have since I've been divorced(where did all those women go?).
How does one "see" a homely mistress, what's the telltale sign? I'm sure they're out there, too.
Seriously it seems like we're always concentrating on the Attractive Wimmenz and awful things they get away with. I don't think they're anymore apt to cheat than ugly people, or average people, it's whatever the circumstances and relationships are.
Who are these "80% of all men find attractive women" and who exactly determines the 80%? I can't even answer this question because the premise is imaginary.
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I have never seen this. Have you?
I haven't seen it live and in person, but I've heard that happen to a couple I knew whose marriage it destroyed (it was with a woman the husband worked with in the office) and I've read it hundreds of times in articles and in forums.
1. Pretty women can be desperate, too
2. They don't know there is a wife
3. He makes false promises
4. He says him and wife are just "room mates" or stay together for the kids only
How can you be desperate if you always have people trying to hit on you?
and 2-4 don't apply because I was speaking of women who knowingly go after a married man, But I reread my post and see I did not make that part clear so my bad....
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