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Sky daddies is a good one. Never heard that before, gonna have to appropriate that one for later usage.There is a tiny part of me that thinks the whole idea is sweet for lack of another term, but not nearly enough for me to indulge in it personally.I thought virginity was a curse. I don't wanna get too explicit but when the hormones kicked in at 13 or 14 it was actually painfully at times if you can follow me here.... LOL.
EDIT: just got a somewhat snarky rep telling me how sky daddy isn't a new term. LOL sign your name on those kinds of reps please. Ya know what... it is new term to me. See that's how that works. I figure it probably wasn't invented by Don'thate, but ya never know.
Exactly; we don't have to share the same convictions to find them admirable on some level. I do know two men who are older virgins. One is 28, and there is nothing "wrong" with him; he was just a late bloomer and very shy, so he didn't create any opportunities for himself... but also doesn't want to just find some willing participant to get it over with. He did just start dating someone recently, so maybe it'll happen.
The other one is 32 and has religiously-driven reasons to wait until marriage. Nice guy, good looking, etc. I admire him sticking to his principles, but he does have some misguided ideas about sex, and he has created a very narrow dating pool.
I really respect those who are waiting, and I get that it makes it special...what else?:
Let's see:
You get to learn about sex together.
Chances for dangerous diseases and other STIs greatly reduced.
No REAL baggage that they conveniently forgot about.
Seems like the only real worries would be your future mate's job and credit history.
You get to learn about sex together.
Chances for dangerous diseases and other STIs greatly reduced.
No REAL baggage that they conveniently forgot about.
Seems like the only real worries would be your future mate's job and credit history.
Virginity does not equal lack of baggage, in fact, it may indicate that they have baggage.
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Must we keep hearing this B.S.? Only women who are 7's or 8's and above get any attention online. If you're below that level you get guys who are 30 years older than you with visibly missing teeth. So yeah, I could have one of them ANY time I want. Believe me, if a guy can't even look at a "6" I'm not gonna lay down with a "2".
Oh lovely, an MRA type who judges women on their appearance or thinks women are judged on appearance and nothing else.
Men and women aren't scores on a pornographically influenced scale--they are human beings. Stop referring to them as such.
By baggage I meant a trail of exes, kids, and child support payments already made.
Thanks for pointing that out. I cant assume everyone is on my wave length.
Well, I wasn't a virgin when I married and I had no kids or stuff. I did have exes, but they were a non-issue
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Maybe they should all go and start a virgin dating website and find each other, then? Someone go create 'v-date', where the only baggage members will have is the kind that impacts their everyday lives with crippling anxiety, neurotic compulsions, and social awkwardness. God knows we have enough dating websites full of sex-having, string-of-exes trailing, unsupported children-having losers already rubbing all their 'real' baggage in everyone's faces. Ha!
If someone is still a virgin in their early to mid 20's and they know for a fact they want to enter into a relationship heading to marriage. I can see where they could have legit preference for wanting to wait. I do know of some women that did just that, it wasn't even necessarily for religious reasons.
It can simply be a life philosophy and having absolutely zero need or desire to go through the whole sleep around and sow your oats phase. I find it somewhat silly that anyone would even need to give some sort of a justification and list of benefits for their lifestyle choices.
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