Extremely hard position re relationship (husband, older, family, kids)
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So, you were or were not drunk when you wrote this? Very hard to know what you're asking. Sounds like you think the grass is greener and you want to test the waters. You sure this isn't just a midlife crisis? Twenty years is a lot to throw away for what you perceive to be an open field with these "tons of gals" you've "met". I suppose it's all up to you because you certainly didn't provide enough information for us to offer advice.
So, you were or were not drunk when you wrote this? Very hard to know what you're asking. Sounds like you think the grass is greener and you want to test the waters. You sure this isn't just a midlife crisis? Twenty years is a lot to throw away for what you perceive to be an open field with these "tons of gals" you've "met". I suppose it's all up to you because you certainly didn't provide enough information for us to offer advice.
Were you here when I was typing this?
Drunk on Italiano vino? Nah, just havin' a few sips -- too many. Don't worry my GI this morning paid me back for it w/ queaziness ALL day.
Midlife at post-50? Hmm, I'm younger than MagnumPI in his tv show back in80s but he had a Red Ferrari & a mansion in Hawaii. I ain't so luky as living in Tucson AZ requires more booze to see ocean anywhere near here.
Ok, I'm going to take a heck of alot of bashing here I know, but I'm at a crossroads.
I have been w/ a lady over 20yrs now & we're unmarried but I'm getting uncomfrotable w/ things. I have a mess on hand as I got into a worries-pass-you-by mindset far too long. i have met tons of other gals & things could get better w/ many other women I bet, but unsure, & thus hold on to what I got.
Now, I know you all will really come down on me, but this is real hard to discuss. I have done alot to salvage it but I feel I'm trying TOO hard & so am really torn. If I was younger (I over 50 now but still good shape ,etc. but still...) & therefore am really dazed here.
Ok, sorry to vent but this is a forum that many here are v good w/ advice, & am v sorry to sound pathetic. (*shaking my head after writing this*)
I have no clue what you are talking about, and what you want to ask or discuss....
I have no clue what you are talking about, and what you want to ask or discuss....
Ha, neither did I last nite. Wine & being po'd never combine well. LOL
But we talked here today, to try to soothe things out. She has been on meds for depression & also for neuro issues, & this along w/ being over 50 for her too, may begin menopause.
Not a good mood to deal w/ as you ladies that are there or have seen or felt yourself. So.. its touch n go & wait n see or -- hide n go seek, more like it
Ok, I beat this thread into the ground w/ my incoherency & psycho babble I'm sure.
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