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Old 11-09-2017, 07:24 AM
 
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I was so in love with this girl. First person I ever thought about marriage with, kids, wanted to live together, all that good stuff.

Ex broke up with a month ago because she was tired of the arguing. Tried to get back with me 2 weeks later. Turned her away and said I was happy and moved on. I'll admit I told kind of blew up her phone still venting about the breakup. 3 weeks ago I messaged her saying this was hard for me. Anyways had this really hot date set up last night.I snapped a video of my plate of food with the caption 'Argentinian food' and then you could see my date in the video.

A few hours later I get a message from the ex saying it hurts to see that I've moved on but if that's what I want then she loves me enough to be happy for me. Sent her a ?. She said I'm referring to your new date. Told her I'm sorry. Loved you her very much but we just couldn't stop arguing and weren't working. Then sent her another text saying as a precedent it isn't wise for me to say what is or isn't going on in my dating life.

Feels good to finally be moving on and find somewhere to talk about it...
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Old 11-09-2017, 07:28 AM
 
Location: Washington, DC
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I was so in love with this girl. First person I ever thought about marriage with, kids, wanted to live together, all that good stuff.

Ex broke up with a month ago because she was tired of the arguing. Tried to get back with me 2 weeks later. Turned her away and said I was happy and moved on. I'll admit I told kind of blew up her phone still venting about the breakup. 3 weeks ago I messaged her saying this was hard for me. Anyways had this really hot date set up last night.I snapped a video of my plate of food with the caption 'Argentinian food' and then you could see my date in the video.

A few hours later I get a message from the ex saying it hurts to see that I've moved on but if that's what I want then she loves me enough to be happy for me. Sent her a ?. She said I'm referring to your new date. Told her I'm sorry. Loved you her very much but we just couldn't stop arguing and weren't working. Then sent her another text saying as a precedent it isn't wise for me to say what is or isn't going on in my dating life.

Feels good to finally be moving on and find somewhere to talk about it...
Good for you. Even though you know you did that on purpose haha. But, if you aren't happy with someone, you can't force it.

Was she the instigator in the arguments or were you?
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Old 11-09-2017, 07:32 AM
 
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Good for you. Even though you know you did that on purpose haha. But, if you aren't happy with someone, you can't force it.

Was she the instigator in the arguments or were you?
Why are you saying that I did that on purpose?
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Old 11-09-2017, 07:40 AM
 
Location: Washington, DC
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Why are you saying that I did that on purpose?
Brah, come on, you know she'd see that and react to it lol. Especially if you posted it on social media and you know that she still follows you.

I'm not saying it's a bad thing at all haha. But cmon lol.
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Old 11-09-2017, 07:45 AM
 
Location: Morrison, CO
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Why are you saying that I did that on purpose?

Maybe I read it incorrectly, but it seems you sent a photo of your dinner, and new girlfriend (date) to your EX? If so, that seems like it is kind of "rubbing it in" so to speak. When you really "move on" you don't do things like that.
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Old 11-09-2017, 07:48 AM
 
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Maybe I read it incorrectly, but it seems you sent a photo of your dinner, and new girlfriend (date) to your EX? If so, that seems like it is kind of "rubbing it in" so to speak. When you really "move on" you don't do things like that.
I didn’t send it to her. I posted to my timeline.
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Old 11-09-2017, 07:49 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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I see, you're not over your ex, not even close.
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Old 11-09-2017, 07:52 AM
 
Location: Florida
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If you were over her you wouldn't be here gloating.
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Old 11-09-2017, 07:59 AM
 
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I didn’t send it to her. I posted to my timeline.
Same difference OP.
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Old 11-09-2017, 08:02 AM
 
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If you were over her you wouldn't be here gloating.
So because I’m posting a lot feeling better (which people do all the time) that means I’m not over her?
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