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So why do you guys only meet every two weeks? Do you know his family and friends?
Have you ever had the talk with him - is he officially your bf? Have you had a serious talk about marriage and children or just the little tease/joke here and there?
If I remember.
OP is waiting for marriage to have sex.
She wants the guy to act more romantic / boyfriend-like & he says he can't do that w/o sex
They'd been friends for a few years
No intercourse or oral -but still SOME physical stuff.
He has not talked about marriage with her
OP, doesn't seem to know their relationship or his intentions -if they're dating or not. Or if they're just "friends" who may like each other
OP is waiting for marriage to have sex.
She wants the guy to act more romantic / boyfriend-like & he says he can't do that w/o sex
They'd been friends for a few years
No intercourse or oral -but still SOME physical stuff.
He has not talked about marriage with her
OP, doesn't seem to know their relationship or his intentions -if they're dating or not. Or if they're just "friends" who may like each other
If I remember.
He is talking about marriage and kids but it was more jokingly - soooo... thats why I said to maybe sit down and clarify how serious he really is.
And she said she is kinda fine with the non-romantic acting.
To me it seems like she is wasting her time, thinking it leads to something while he probably has some gfs on the side or at least sex. He comes back to her every few weeks because he enjoys hanging out, while she thinks they have a real future together.
That's why i was asking if she knows the family and friends. Guys usually dont just bring anyone home to the parents.
OP is waiting for marriage to have sex.
She wants the guy to act more romantic / boyfriend-like & he says he can't do that w/o sex
They'd been friends for a few years
No intercourse or oral -but still SOME physical stuff.
He has not talked about marriage with her
OP, doesn't seem to know their relationship or his intentions -if they're dating or not. Or if they're just "friends" who may like each other
thts nearly correct apart from that he has talked of marriage, little.comments like oh make sure you shown your mum a pic of Me and hll always send pictures of himself lol.
also another thing he ended up telling my friend that we are being physical together in a group cnvo because he knows she doesn't like him and he knows I don't tell her anything about me.and him so randomly he just said shame to her.
He is talking about marriage and kids but it was more jokingly - soooo... thats why I said to maybe sit down and clarify how serious he really is.
And she said she is kinda fine with the non-romantic acting.
To me it seems like she is wasting her time, thinking it leads to something while he probably has some gfs on the side or at least sex. He comes back to her every few weeks because he enjoys hanging out, while she thinks they have a real future together.
That's why i was asking if she knows the family and friends. Guys usually dont just bring anyone home to the parents.
I wouldn't say it's every few weeks id say once a week or every other.week we see each other. but ye it's not really a lot I supose.
in terms of tellig friends well I don't expect.him to becsuse I tell him that I don't tell any of my.friends anythng apart from that we are friends, and when I did say that he kept calling me two faced and how I act one way with.him and.another way with my friends and b**** about.him, like he knew I do tell them the bad things he does and he also knows a lot of my friends don't like.him but all that was a couple of months ago now.
You guys don't really seem to have much of a relationship. Why do you see each other so infrequently?
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Do you two not see each other more often because you're in different schools?
Or do you mean you're in the same school but just don't get to see each other alone every week or so?
You guys don't really seem to have much of a relationship. Why do you see each other so infrequently?
because he doesn't like to meet weekdays tht much and I'm not free on weekends and that's the time he likes to go out but still he manages to meet after work once a week or so. and as for me I tend.to be busy I meet a lot of friends aswell. also I'm too lazy to arrange more than one day a week anyway. and I guess he is too. he always suggests to go out to different places and comes up with ideas, and always says we should do this but then maybe waits fr me to arrange a day to meet
Do you two not see each other more often because you're in different schools?
Or do you mean you're in the same school but just don't get to see each other alone every week or so?
no its not that it's just we don't really arrange to see each other more often. And we.both do a lot of.other thngs during the week to. Evrytime I see him though he tells me what else he wants to do or where he wants to go with me but then waits on me to arrange a day
because he doesn't like to meet weekdays tht much and I'm not free on weekends and that's the time he likes to go out but still he manages to meet after work once a week or so. and as for me I tend.to be busy I meet a lot of friends aswell. also I'm too lazy to arrange more than one day a week anyway. and I guess he is too. he always suggests to go out to different places and comes up with ideas, and always says we should do this but then maybe waits fr me to arrange a day to meet
Doesn't seem like you guys are actually in a relationship.
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Doesn't seem like you guys are actually in a relationship.
his ex I remember he would say he met her twice a week.
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