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Old 11-19-2017, 07:14 PM
 
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Well then do what you want, OP.

I just hope you come across a guy who will show you how a person who genuinely likes you is suppose to act. I'm not getting that vibe from your "friend." Sorry. Too much manipulation and too many games are being played for my liking.
if he is what you say he is, it's hard to contemplate. Since before anything else he was supposed to be my friend. Therefore he should have looked out for me as a friend at the very least. If that isn't so, that alone will be difficult to get past. u gotta remember iv known him for years and years now. Its.weird because I feel like I couldn't do the same to him, I would feel bad about it. I'm speechless that he could carry on that way (if it is true). I suppose not everyone has the same moral compass.
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Old 11-19-2017, 07:16 PM
 
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Seriously, it's not interesting. He follows thots on Instagram. That's 90% of the platform. The other 10% is food pics. I'll bet you he watches porn too. /thread
it's not interesting for you as you're not personally involved
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Old 11-19-2017, 07:21 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I don't know about anyone else but I would want someone to be so into me that they focus only on me and not have images of hundreds of other women in their minds.
... is the whole crux of the issue, from your very first post.

You want more than he is willing to give.

You think you're in a relationship, and that's why you're jealous that he is following these women on IG.

The secret to making yourself feel better is to either stop caring about it, since he's NOT your boyfriend, or get him to be exclusive with you. If he won't agree to that, you can finally stop worrying about it.

Just pick one.
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Old 11-19-2017, 07:35 PM
 
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... is the whole crux of the issue, from your very first post.

You want more than he is willing to give.

You think you're in a relationship, and that's why you're jealous that he is following these women on IG.

The secret to making yourself feel better is to either stop caring about it, since he's NOT your boyfriend, or get him to be exclusive with you. If he won't agree to that, you can finally stop worrying about it.

Just pick one.
well for my pride alone I would not pick the second one.
I guess il have to try the.first. *sigh*
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Old 11-19-2017, 07:37 PM
 
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EXACTLY! You don't like his thot addiction, un-involve yourself. Bam. Problem solved.
if only I was a robot.
and had no ego. it jus bruises it every time I see a new wOman being followed. and most of the time they ain all that. so then I wonder why
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Old 11-19-2017, 07:40 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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if only I was a robot.
and had no ego. it jus bruises it every time I see a new wOman being followed. and most of the time they ain all that. so then I wonder why
Stop checking.
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Old 11-19-2017, 08:04 PM
 
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Stop checking.
yeh your right
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Old 11-19-2017, 10:56 PM
 
Location: Big Apple
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I see, ok. I would say we are dating though. since he calls our meet ups "dates" lol
But are you guys exclusively dating? Any decent guy would stop if hes serious with the girls hes with, knowing that it bothers her. If he doesnt stop after you ask, well.. you have your answer there. Although going back to my first post, every guy follows random girls on ig so you shouldn't take it to offense or personal.
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Old 11-20-2017, 05:12 AM
 
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But are you guys exclusively dating? Any decent guy would stop if hes serious with the girls hes with, knowing that it bothers her. If he doesnt stop after you ask, well.. you have your answer there. Although going back to my first post, every guy follows random girls on ig so you shouldn't take it to offense or personal.
he knows iv looked at his accounts. I tend to make indirect comments rather than direct ones. I just said the type of women you fancy is really not all that.I said it because all the women seem to have something similar going on with all of them. they have long faces long noses thyre not exactly exotic looking. I think I'm more exotic. and he jst comments with "yeh so that's what I like"
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Old 11-20-2017, 06:10 AM
 
Location: Florida
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Guess as far as he's concerned you aren't as 'all that' as you think you are.
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