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Old 11-18-2017, 10:13 AM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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All these male posters here who say they would never sleep with a married woman, maybe half of them would if the married woman offered to have no-strings attached sex.

The mind is strong. Sometimes the little guy is stronger.

I believe the guys who say they wouldn't. While I know lots of guys with morals of alley cats, I know really good guys too.

But yeah, that little guy is the tail wagging the dog....
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Old 11-18-2017, 10:14 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Sad mindset to have, that only your opinion can be correct. Part of the problem, really. *shrugs*
Dude, that was funny. Loosen your belt a little.
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Old 11-18-2017, 10:21 AM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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The responses don't surprise me. I can't count how many men when told "I'm married" have said it doesn't matter to them if it doesn't matter to me.
What's interesting to me, is that the posters saying go for it, are justifying it by basically saying, "People still do it, what does it matter?" and "It's just sex, I'm single I don't have any obligation to their relationship." While that is true, it's still disrespectful. They're still contributing to the cycle of distrust, disrespect, and the problem of infidelity in society today. I'm willing to bet if those same posters fell in love and married, they would be singing a different tune.

It's all fun and games until it happens to them. The lack of empathy is frightening. It's a shame folks would get ANY flack for walking away. At the end of the day, both are wrong.

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Old 11-18-2017, 11:19 AM
 
Location: The Jar
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The responses don't surprise me. I can't count how many men when told "I'm married" have said it doesn't matter to them if it doesn't matter to me.
Youch! Very sad commentary . Begs this question: Is empathy intrinsic? I think it can be painfully learned-- just like another contributor to the thread suggested.
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Old 11-18-2017, 11:51 AM
 
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All these male posters here who say they would never sleep with a married woman, maybe half of them would if the married woman offered to have no-strings attached sex.

The mind is strong. Sometimes the little guy is stronger.
This is not normal. It is of a prostitute to offer to have no-strings attached sex

Normally when adultery occurs, it is natural. It is built up tension that burst... attraction and sex drive takes over.
Discussion about how this adultery is going to happen ahead of time doesn't take place ...since if people were in their right minds to do that, they'd be in their right minds to make the right decision not to go there

Hence why shock and bewilderment, massive shame accompanies the act of adultery. At least with people who have a conscious
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Old 11-18-2017, 12:58 PM
 
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I’ve been bowling with this woman now for 2 months, and in the beginning, as we started to talk she has told me about how she loves her husband, but he doesn’t give her what she needs (meaning sex). Well now, 2 months into our league she and I have become “flirty†with each other everytime we bowl on sat nights together. We’ve both sent each other nude pictures of ourselves, and talk about wanting to have sex with each other all the time. I’m a single man, so i have no attachments but nor do I have any feelings for this woman either. I just figure I haven’t had sex in a while, (great sex never) and that this is my opportunity to have it for once. If we did though i’m concerned about having a guilty feeling about what we did, and of course we would have to keep it a secret from everyone, including her husband. I’m unsure what to do. Any advice?
You’re a sleazeball and a jerk for sending a married woman nude photos and wanting to sleep with her then admitting not having any feelings for her. You’re the kind of dude I purposely stay away from.

For the record she’s just as bad for talking sex while she’s still married and sending you nude photos of herself.

Do what you want, it seems like you both deserve each other being equally low class. Maybe you’ll both do each other and get STD. Wouldn’t that be fun?
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Old 11-18-2017, 01:05 PM
 
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Anyone else think the OP was trolling and looking for reactions rather than any real world experiences he may have had? Strange that after 100 replies he hasn't been back.
I'm almost sure he posted it to get attention. In real life I bet he's a total loser who can't attract any females, animal or human. But I already replied to him with my opinions in the slight chance his situation is for real.
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Old 11-18-2017, 01:06 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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All these male posters here who say they would never sleep with a married woman, maybe half of them would if the married woman offered to have no-strings attached sex.

The mind is strong. Sometimes the little guy is stronger.
Yeah you're wrong. I'm a man and if a married woman tried that on me.. I'd tell her to go home to her husband.
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Old 11-18-2017, 01:11 PM
 
Location: South Bay Native
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Yeah you're wrong. I'm a man and if a married woman tried that on me.. I'd tell her to go home to her husband.
That's actually commendable. Your moral compass is functional, unlike the OP's, considering the content of his thread. I don't believe this should be a grey area - either you believe in cheating/adultery, or you don't.
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Old 11-18-2017, 01:18 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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That's actually commendable. Your moral compass is functional, unlike the OP's, considering the content of his thread. I don't believe this should be a grey area - either you believe in cheating/adultery, or you don't.
I wouldn't want it to happen to me so I don't try to have sex with women already with someone. Totally disrespectful.
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