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shypshnius in your opening post you say she dumped you, then you called her and invited her for coffee, and she declined and further told you she wanted to see someone else.
Coffee, tea, hot chocolate, whatever....the "let's get together for a talk" meetings after a breakup are usually a waste of time. You want to reminisce, keep it alive, hang on to a thread. Your statement "...when (if) she calls again..." = you hoping she will. I also suspect you've been contacting her more times than what you stated.
If she wanted to be with you she wouldn't have broken up with you - that's the bottom line.
A breakup hurts. But you need to stop trying to second-guess her behavior. It's over. She doesn't want to be with you. You really need to move on.
You love her alot? How is that possible, since she obviously thinks you are a joke, someone to be played with and not taken seriously? You look weak and needy in her eyes and can never get her back, and you shouldn't since she is not a nice person.
After her looks take a dive some years down the road and she can't get any other boys to take her, I'm sure she will call you up when she needs a wallet to drain.
You love her alot? How is that possible, since she obviously thinks you are a joke, someone to be played with and not taken seriously? You look weak and needy in her eyes and can never get her back, and you shouldn't since she is not a nice person.
After her looks take a dive some years down the road and she can't get any other boys to take her, I'm sure she will call you up when she needs a wallet to drain.
You're not sure of any such thing, I and I doubt you know what she looks like.
She has moved on, OP needs to do the same.
I feel sorry for the sucker who will end up with her. I would never want to put up with her holier then thou, princess mentality. How you can even be attracted to her after what she said baffles me. This type of women will be divorced twice by age 40, with 4 kids from 3 different men, while some beta sucker falls for her line of bull and takes her in to support her kids while she's cheating with all the studs she secretly lusts after on the side. Suckers.
Of course they get away with this behavior because even if they can't find a man to support them (they always will) the government will support them as a last resort.
Do yourself a favor and link her to my post here, and this thread, and after that cut contact and STAY FAR AWAY.
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