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This comes up as sub text in threads in the relationship forum, so I hope it can stay here.
I know most people can be either or some of both depending on context. So I'm not proposing a strictly either-or question, but rather, a which matters more to you question. How do you prefer to be seen or thought of?
Before I post, this is me just being silly and exaggeratedly pessimistic.
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I feel going with either option stems from insecurity of how one see's themselves now, but maybe that's me projecting. I go with reliably lovable (because I'm human garbage)
I've been pretty desirable, reliably loveable sounds good.
On a serous note sort of an odd thread. I imagine most people want some blend of both.........
Well, threads I start are usually something like me thinking out loud, so they're going to be a bit odd .
But seriously, counting responses so far, of the people who chose one or the other, the count is 11-4 in favor of intensely desirable. 12-4 counting me. I wonder why that is? Wouldn't you (people in general) think being reliably lovable would be more popular?
I really enjoy the flirt, the sparks, the turn on and the chemistry.
Currently I am enjoying my independence and not looking for anything long term. If I ever "go there" again a strong foundation of desire would have to precede any loving relationship.
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