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This comes up as sub text in threads in the relationship forum, so I hope it can stay here.
I know most people can be either or some of both depending on context. So I'm not proposing a strictly either-or question, but rather, a which matters more to you question. How do you prefer to be seen or thought of?
Well, reliably lovable for the long term relationship, of course. But intensely desirable is useful at the start of a relationship, to get things moving!
After 18 years together, we have a nearly ideal blend of both, I'd say.
Well, reliably lovable for the long term relationship, of course. But intensely desirable is useful at the start of a relationship, to get things moving!
After 18 years together, we have a nearly ideal blend of both, I'd say.
That makes sense, but I'm thinking more in terms of how you think women, in your case, typically see you, and whether that's how you prefer to be seen. I know the choice is a false binary, but I think the answer can be revelatory.
Well, reliably lovable for the long term relationship, of course. But intensely desirable is useful at the start of a relationship, to get things moving!
After 18 years together, we have a nearly ideal blend of both, I'd say.
This. A blend of both. Does "intensely desirable" encompass more than appearance? Like mind/intellect, aura/vibe/allure, a special something or feeling? I'll go for that. Those traits are more discernible in the beginning, that draw intrigue and fancy, that could lead to the warm gooey center and lovable parts that help sustain it all. Mr. Meta wouldn't have gotten to know those irresistibly lovable traits without first admiring or fancying my mind/intellect and physical bits.
I am to everyone I know insanely reliably loveable.
My whole life. I suppose it has served me very well.
I want the other thing. Just for a little while. I had it in college and it was fun.
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