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I got into a FWB relationship and now I want out. The girl didn't do anything wrong, but honestly she is a league or two below me and I just don't really find her attractive. When I got into this I was hurting over my ex and wanted anything to take my mind off of her, but now my mind is clearer. I don't find her attractive, to the point that it's hard to even get excited for her. How do I tell her that I don't want to do this anymore? In a way that is not rude, preferably
Honestly I never really found her attractive, when I met her I just got out of a relationship and was kinda desperate and had bad luck with girls that week, and she was just there, so I went for it. I know it sounds bad, but it's the truth
I got into a FWB relationship and now I want out. The girl didn't do anything wrong, but honestly she is a league or two below me and I just don't really find her attractive. When I got into this I was hurting over my ex and wanted anything to take my mind off of her, but now my mind is clearer. I don't find her attractive, to the point that it's hard to even get excited for her. How do I tell her that I don't want to do this anymore? In a way that is not rude, preferably
Honestly I never really found her attractive, when I met her I just got out of a relationship and was kinda desperate and had bad luck with girls that week, and she was just there, so I went for it. I know it sounds bad, but it's the truth
Well, don't say that
Just say, "I'm sorry, but I'm having second thoughts, and I think it would be better if we didn't hang out anymore."
Just say, "I'm sorry, but I'm having second thoughts, and I think it would be better if we didn't hang out anymore."
Lol obviously I'm not gonna just say "you're ugly" and leave it at that I wanna do it in a gentlemanly way. I was thinking I could say "sorry, I think this sort of FWB relationship is not for me", I think maybe she'll understand that without being offended
Approach her with the attitude of gratitude. For you see, you are about to head to lower grounds and pretty much be scum to her. So once you tell her that you find her "unattractive" , you can pretty much be thankful that she allows you to walk away with a baritone voice .
Good luck though in re inventing your self image. I'm sure you respect women and wouldn't want someone for a primal reason only.
Lol obviously I'm not gonna just say "you're ugly" and leave it at that I wanna do it in a gentlemanly way. I was thinking I could say "sorry, I think this sort of FWB relationship is not for me", I think maybe she'll understand that without being offended
my tastes have developed for more costly hookers, can we still be friends?
Lol obviously I'm not gonna just say "you're ugly" and leave it at that I wanna do it in a gentlemanly way. I was thinking I could say "sorry, I think this sort of FWB relationship is not for me", I think maybe she'll understand that without being offended
I think that should work fine.
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Originally Posted by Nov3
Approach her with the attitude of gratitude. For you see, you are about to head to lower grounds and pretty much be scum to her. So once you tell her that you find her "unattractive" , you can pretty much be thankful that she allows you to walk away with a baritone voice .
Good luck though in re inventing your self image. I'm sure you respect women and wouldn't want someone for a primal reason only.
Why so harsh? He said he's not trying to hurt her feelings.
Jeezus... just use common sense and tell her that you're having second thoughts and good lord don't tell her why, just say you're not comfortable, just don't say that you was just boning her because she was available.
Be an honest man and tell her exactly what you posted here. Move on with you life and come back here to post when you find a woman whom you feel is equal to your league and she tells you and/or makes you feel like you are two leagues below her and she only wanted you for sex because she was at a low point in her life.
Lol obviously I'm not gonna just say "you're ugly" and leave it at that I wanna do it in a gentlemanly way. I was thinking I could say "sorry, I think this sort of FWB relationship is not for me", I think maybe she'll understand that without being offended
Why start being a gentleman now?
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I wanna do it in a gentlemanly way. I was thinking I could say "sorry, I think this sort of FWB relationship is not for me", I think maybe she'll understand that without being offended
