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Originally Posted by hawaiiancoconut
Two things come to mind when I hear a guy complain about not having a gf at a certain age, and that's is 1) he's somewhat anti social 2) dude lacks confidence. I think, its mainly confidence.
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Yes...this. I think confidence is the BIGGEST aspect. I think, if he was anti-social, he wouldn't be upset about not having a GF...right?
But OP, let's hit on a couple of other things as well. You need to be clean, and not smell. Women will over look you when you look shabby or downcast, they will be REPELLED if you smell. If you look dirty, and it's not apparent that you just came from a construction sight, or some such...you won't get attention.
If you want attention, be clean. LOOK like you take some pride in your appearance.
And sweetie, you need to look at people. You need to smile. If you're shy, you MUST over come it. Shyness may be part of your personality...but trust me, it doesn't work for you or in your favor. You control IT. Don't let it control you.
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