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It might hurt, but quickly walk away and forget about it. Think about the people that actually care about you and go from there, especially around the holiday season.
I feel so lost and it hurts so much, what should i do
I'm sorry he treated you this way. It hurts finding out he is not trustworthy and the man you thought he was. It is good to know than to be in the dark. He is being a class A jerk. One you do not want to.build a life with.
In the meantime, it hurts like.crazy to have your hope for the future stomped on. Be kind to yourself. No matter what you're facing, you can always be kind to you.
Is that the same fiance who lives overseas?
That's very long distance. I bet he isn't interested in you anymore.
Remember your thread from April? He wasn't interested then either. What you expect? To see him once a year? That doesn't work...
Maybe he was checking to see if you were active on the dating site, which you apparently are if you still have a profile and could log in to check up on him.
I'm sorry he treated you this way. It hurts finding out he is not trustworthy and the man you thought he was. It is good to know than to be in the dark. He is being a class A jerk. One you do not want to.build a life with.
In the meantime, it hurts like.crazy to have your hope for the future stomped on. Be kind to yourself. No matter what you're facing, you can always be kind to you.
Best wishes to you.
How is he Class A jerk??? I bet the whole "fiance" thing is only in OP's head.
They don't really have any "relationship", just some chats on the phone. Did he promissed her marriage? Are they exclusive? Maybe that's just OP's wishful thinking.
Talk is cheap...
Is that the same fiance who lives overseas?
That's very long distance. I bet he isn't interested in you anymore.
Remember your thread from April? He wasn't interested then either. What you expect? To see him once a year? That doesn't work...
Is this the woman in S. America who has a "fiance" in Florida?
Yeah, OP--he's not interested. This shouldn't be a surprise to you at this point. As I vaguely recall from your previous thread, he doesn't even have legal residency in the US; he can't do anything for you, anyway. Find someone in your local community.
How is he Class A jerk??? I bet the whole "fiance" thing is only in OP's head.
They don't really have any "relationship", just some chats on the phone. Did he promissed her marriage? Are they exclusive? Maybe that's just OP's wishful thinking.
Talk is cheap...
Pardon me! Geezzz I didn't know the background, only what she wrote in her post here.
When you say "active" did he respond to your contact? If not, how does that make him "Active?"
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