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"I don't understand. But I don't care, so it works out."
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I've long thought that dating websites should offer this as a service, for a fee. For people who go on a lot of first dates and never have anyone interested in a second date, or maybe a third. They're able to attract people, but not once the potential partner meets them.
I think I could do that. I bet most people could. Meet for coffee, and I'll tell you in 15 minutes what you're doing that's off-putting.
I've long thought that dating websites should offer this as a service, for a fee. For people who go on a lot of first dates and never have anyone interested in a second date, or maybe a third. They're able to attract people, but not once the potential partner meets them.
I think I could do that. I bet most people could. Meet for coffee, and I'll tell you in 15 minutes what you're doing that's off-putting.
I agree! they should offer that. Many people have blocks too, that are holding them back from something good, so there is that as well.
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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Originally Posted by mir86
If you're really struggling to find the right partner for you, is that something you would invest in? Have any of you done it?
I"m not sure if its something I would do, personally, but I feel there's potentially something valuable to it. Who knows though.
Nope, finding a partner is not enough of a priority for me that I'd actually waste money for someone to tell and judge me on every damn step I take when I already waste enough money and time on first dates that go nowhere.
No, but that would be because I know what I'm doing that may be off-putting lol!
LOL..points for honesty!
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Originally Posted by The Dissenter
Nope, finding a partner is not enough of a priority for me that I'd actually waste money for someone to tell and judge me on every damn step I take when I already waste enough money and time on first dates that go nowhere.
I mean I don't think its meant to be a judgmental thing...but sure!
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Originally Posted by Atlguy39
I've done it a few times since living in Oklahoma. Never again. You could learn as much or more from books or even therapy. Huge waste of money
wow, you've really done some work then! how much money did you spend, if you don't mind me asking?
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