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Old 12-21-2017, 06:33 PM
 
Location: a primitive state
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You should wait long enough to find a place to stay. You’re adults. There doesn’t need to be drama. Tell her you want to talk about what you’ve heard. Tell her you’re moving out after the first of the year. Then follow through with it.
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Old 12-21-2017, 07:49 PM
 
Location: Auckland, New Zealand
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After. You're already lying so just extend it a few weeks.

Then please for the love of Pete go "no contact."

Otherwise you'll be doing with her the things you complain about her doing with HER toxic ex.
Agreed. Wait. It won't hurt you.
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Old 12-23-2017, 07:42 PM
 
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2 breakups and you still moved cross country? Oh dear, next time read the red flags.
Here's to hoping your name is not on the lease at your current place.
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Old 12-23-2017, 07:57 PM
 
Location: Florida
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I could care less if it's Christmas, New Years or 4th of July. Not only is this ex toxic, your relationship is. Something emotionally unhealthy is keeping you going back to her, figure that out, on your own time after you break it off.
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Old 12-23-2017, 08:20 PM
 
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Arghhh. I hope the OP isnt another of those hit-and-run posters who never comes back to let us know how things turned out.
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Old 12-23-2017, 10:21 PM
 
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Christmas Eve at 11:30 at night post coitous. Put you clothes on and walk out for good with a big ho ho ho.
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Old 12-23-2017, 10:24 PM
 
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Enjoy Christmas with them knowing it will be your last.

Find a new place and start 2018 clear
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Old 12-24-2017, 01:06 PM
 
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Frankly my dear, I don't give a damn. (Door slams)
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Old 12-24-2017, 01:10 PM
 
Location: planet earth
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Do you think you might want to have a few couples therapy sessions before you just ditch her?
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Old 12-24-2017, 01:56 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Do you think you might want to have a few couples therapy sessions before you just ditch her?
Individual therapy would be more helpful for the OP, to get some insight into his decision-making process.
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