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Old 01-03-2018, 10:52 AM
 
Location: SoCal again
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you have a history of making weird, fast decisions - being on a dating site without being ready to date. Dating someone and then suddenly deciding to leave the country for good. Then suddenly realizing you want to be here, moving back. Who knows what you wanna do in a month from now?


I wouldn't trust you as far as I can throw a rock. Give him some time, work on building a relationship and then he will probably take it down without you having to ask for it.
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Old 01-03-2018, 02:29 PM
 
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You can't make him take his profile down, just like you cannot control any facet of another person's behavior.

What's bothersome about this story is he agreed to take it down, and then didn't. The lie would concern me.
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Old 01-03-2018, 02:54 PM
 
Location: Texas
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If he won't take his profile down, then he won't commit to anything.
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Old 01-03-2018, 03:26 PM
 
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Thing is, if you want to concentrate just on him and prefer only dating one man at a time, that's fine and not even
a bad thing
You just can't expect that he feels the same way about it unless and until he wants to be exclusive with you
I think you're right. i got ahead of myself because the way he expressed his feelings. He said he tried so hard to move on from me but couldn't, I'm very special to him, he feels connected and that he hopes this time we "work out"
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Old 01-06-2018, 12:50 AM
 
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Three dates seems a bit early to ask that, IMO, and especially in this case given the on-and-off-history that you two have. I would wait to see if there is going to be more stability there this time. More commitment being established should be what leads to the profiles being taken down, not the other way around.
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Old 01-06-2018, 05:51 AM
 
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Well, you said that you know he's still on match and it showed that he was online because you checked. Well, to check it you would still have to be on match yourself. Your asking him to take his down when your still on it. ???
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Old 01-06-2018, 11:50 AM
 
Location: Nevada
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Well, you said that you know he's still on match and it showed that he was online because you checked. Well, to check it you would still have to be on match yourself. Your asking him to take his down when your still on it. ???
You can hide your profile, so you don't appear in searches and no one should contact you. But even with a hidden profile, you can still search and look.

So you can be on the site, but not looking for matches.
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Old 01-07-2018, 12:12 AM
 
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Three dates seems a bit early to ask that, IMO, and especially in this case given the on-and-off-history that you two have. I would wait to see if there is going to be more stability there this time. More commitment being established should be what leads to the profiles being taken down, not the other way around.
Well, the third time we got back together, he put my picture on his fridge door after 2 dates. I didn't make a big deal about it...
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Old 01-07-2018, 08:49 AM
 
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Well, the third time we got back together, he put my picture on his fridge door after 2 dates. I didn't make a big deal about it...
That's sweet, I guess, but irrelevant to whether or not you should expect him to take his profile down already.
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Old 01-07-2018, 08:52 AM
 
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you have a history of making weird, fast decisions - being on a dating site without being ready to date. Dating someone and then suddenly deciding to leave the country for good. Then suddenly realizing you want to be here, moving back. Who knows what you wanna do in a month from now?


I wouldn't trust you as far as I can throw a rock. Give him some time, work on building a relationship and then he will probably take it down without you having to ask for it.
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