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Old 01-11-2018, 08:00 PM
 
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This must be sarcasm.

THIS is why men fail so miserably on Craigslist dating sites.

In short, no. Women don't want casual sex with some guy on a website who can't get a date.

To prove this, read through mens porn vs. women's porn. Men's porn involves reckless encounters with complete strangers. Women's porn (romance novels) involves her getting to know a powerful and gorgeous man who at first is distant, even maddeningly arrogant, but is able to be won over and turned into helpless shameless jelly of passionate desire for her. So there's that.
But women love sex equally if not more than men. If the majority of men are open to FWB it would make sense that there are an equal number of women willing.

I don't go hunting for sex but I imagine a lot of divorced older women are very open for casual sex, especially those with young kids not looking for a replacement father.

And there are probably women who have accumulated wealth and are leery of marrying men just to lose it so they just want a FWB too.

Women are sexual creatures that love casual sex. Don't you know several women in your life who don't want to be tied down to responsibility?

The only thing I agree with you is men shouldn't be sending junk pics to women. If a man is discreet and not being a horndog out in the open then he should have no problem finding willing partners because women love sex just as much as men.
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Old 01-12-2018, 01:43 AM
 
Location: Los Angeles
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With all of your posts that I've read thus far OP, this seems to be something that you (and men that are like you) would grow an affinity for: Physical intimacy, companionship, mind control and variety all rolled up into one "Entity"!

I'm actually excited at this new future prospect ...because it would then take the kind of men who would actually go for this OUT of the dating pool...and it would then leave normal, emotionally healthy men IN the dating pool for normal, emotionally healthy women to date them.

A win-win situation for ALL!

I hope the price comes down.

I had another device I bought in 2014 and I wonder if that helped to lead to a cognitive renewal where I snapped out of the decades long brain fog and figured out a few decent hustles to make some money that helped me escape my low wage job just in time.

It didn't last very long and I didn't replace it. I feel much worse mentally now but not sure if buying another one is the answer.
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Old 03-24-2018, 12:35 PM
 
Location: Both coasts
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Default Craigslist Ends Personal Ads- Less Options for Closeted/ Cheaters...Any Craigslist stories?

Craigslist "Casual Encounters" provided an outlet for many closeted/ bisexual individuals to explore sexual opportunities with others they would not have encountered otherwise. Also was an outlet for others of orientations to have casual encounters, often when they were already attached.

Now that these ads are banned, there are less options for encounters for such individuals. This is not about those in the sex industry. Thoughts?

Any one open to sharing a Casual Encounter experience from Craigslist, in its memory?
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Old 03-24-2018, 01:09 PM
 
Location: Des Moines, IA
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I used to use CL for dating. Not so much the casual encounters section. And I actually had a few dates from it. Some were good. Some were...well, about what you'd expect from CL.
That said, I found more reasonable, sane women on CL than I did on any dating site. I wish dating sites weren't complete garbage.
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Old 03-24-2018, 01:15 PM
 
Location: Atlanta
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Another website will pick up the slack. These websites are targeted toward men - most of them married - who desire a quickie before they head home to the wife. I used to date strippers, so I hung out in strip clubs. Most of the customers wore wedding rings and had child seats in their cars. Don't forget, there are more strip clubs and ***** houses in most cities than there are churches.
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Old 03-24-2018, 01:18 PM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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Doesn't matter. There plenty of other easy ways for people to cheat and explore their sexuality.

People who are determined to do what they want to do, will do it. Period.
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Old 03-24-2018, 01:23 PM
 
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Very interesting...jc, are all CL personal ads no longer available at this time, or only the casual encounters section?
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Old 03-24-2018, 01:23 PM
 
Location: Atlanta
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@ StarPaladin: The entire personals section is shut down.
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Old 03-24-2018, 01:25 PM
 
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@ StarPaladin: The entire personals section is shut down.
Many thanks for the helpful update, i deeply appreciate the valuable info
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Old 03-24-2018, 02:18 PM
 
Location: NNJ
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Extensive discussion here... FOSTA is the name of the legislature.

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