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so i met this girl at work that has a boyfriend ( he has been working in another town for 6 month and has to work there for 6 more months) and i rly like her
she already started talking to this other coworker for a couple of months but i asked her if there is something between them and she said no
anyway we met a couple of times at her house its was great we laughed we cuddled but it was weird because she was talking to this other coworker even when we were toghether she said its nothing they are just friends
3rd time i went to her house things got a little physical (not sex just some touching)
she said that we should pretend like it never happened i was kinda ok with that but the next day she found out that i talked to a coworker about the problem she has with her boyfriend she got mad and said that she doesnt wanna talk anymore but after 2 days she started talking to me again sending me picture of her ( normal ones not naked) and i would always say she is beautiful and she would send me hearts in messenger stuff like that
but now she stoped initiating conversations again she keeps talking to this other coworker i asked her if she wants to be with him she said no and i told her if we could meet sometime and she said that its not a good idea because things might get physical again and we might end up having sex ( i dunno if thats suposed to make me proud or sad)
its been 2 weeks since we actualy had a conversation we talk but nothing special just " hi"and "how are you "
she is still with her boyfriend they havent broken up yet but she keeps talking to this other guy alot he lives near her they go eat toghether and stuff like that
was what we had just for fun or was it something more? i dont understant i dont know what to do from here
and is it worth it considering what she did and does while her boyfriend works in another town?
Have some self respect, man. Don't get with a girl who is willing to cheat on her bf. Go for a girl who's gonna give all of herself for you, not someone whos' sharing you with her oblivious bf.
Have some self respect, man. Don't get with a girl who is willing to cheat on her bf. Go for a girl who's gonna give all of herself for you, not someone whos' sharing you with her oblivious bf.
but thats the thing she said that she doesnt wanna meet anymore because things might get physical again
and with the other co worker she said that they are just friends
What part of her having a bf do you not understand? She has told you she doesn't want to be alone with you anymore, so do as she says, & leave her alone.
but thats the thing she said that she doesnt wanna meet anymore because things might get physical again
and with the other co worker she said that they are just friends
And what do you think she's telling her BF about either one of y'all?
You like her? So what? She has a boyfriend. That means you back off. Go to work, let her sort out her mess, the end.
If she ever breaks up with the guy, then you can hang with her more. Until then, be cool and stay away.
Maybe she realizes you are a danger to her relationship with her boyfriend and she doesn't trust herself around you so she made the decision to stay away from you. The other guy in the office she is talking to she is just friends with, nothing more....... But.... I could be wrong, it's more of a guess on my part. But she is probably pretty young and not engaged or anything, all is fair in love and war.
but thats the thing she said that she doesnt wanna meet anymore because things might get physical again
and with the other co worker she said that they are just friends
Well, she's an idiot to tell you that even though she intellectually doesn't want anything with you that sure, sex sometimes happens when you put your brain on hold. What is so difficult to understand? You're letting YOUR little head rule in this case even though you are doubting yourself.
Sounds like a bad idea in general, doesn't it?
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