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Old 01-20-2018, 09:00 AM
 
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It's amazing what people will put up with because someone's good looking.
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Old 01-20-2018, 09:01 AM
 
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Now you made me feel sorry for him too.

You still cant neglect your kid or yourself over it. Ignore his texts until you are on a break, off work and on downtime with the kid for the day. Maybe he'll get the hint. and understand that just because his life is stationary it doesn't mean that yours is too. If he wants to be childish and not text you for 24 hours - hey! Okay, you got a day off, lol.


I hope he gets his transplant, and you both can get back to something more normal.
Thanks for your comment. I agree. I won't text him back, and if he decides to come back, I'll explain that I have stuff to do and can't text 24/7. If he doesn't accept it, it's his problem. And if he does, than fine
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Old 01-20-2018, 09:18 AM
 
Location: St Augustine
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BLOCK THIS CLOWN NOW !

It sounds like a scam to me anyhow.
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Old 01-20-2018, 10:12 AM
 
Location: Bloomington IN
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Just because a person can send you photos of someone getting dialysis, his home and his parents doesn't mean he's not a scammer catfishing you.

Remember Manti Te'o? Notre Dame: Football Star Manti Te'o Was 'Catfished' in Girlfriend Hoax - ABC News

BLOCK HIM NOW!

BTW--I do question if there is more than one scam going on here.

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Old 01-20-2018, 10:12 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I think he just has mental issues. I would define this as a Borderline Personality Disorder.

Of course there are many scammers out there on dating websites, but he's not the case. I also think he will not come back.
You are doing a great job making excuses for him.

It sounds like you are moving on, which is good. But for your sake you need to recognize red flag behavior.

He most likely is looking for a caretaker. He will probably move on to someone else quickly. His looks enable him to do that. He comes on real strong real fast. That's the "scammy" aspect of what he is doing.

Live and learn.
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Old 01-20-2018, 10:36 AM
 
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This 34-year old man is acting like a much young person infatuated with anyone who will give him the time of day, but in addition he watches too many Hallmark and Lifetime movies.
This is classic Nigerian scammer language. Have you ever spoken to him on the phone or Face-timed with him, OP?
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Old 01-20-2018, 10:50 AM
 
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This is classic Nigerian scammer language. Have you ever spoken to him on the phone or Face-timed with him, OP?
Why Nigerian? He is white. We chatted through Skype once.
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Old 01-20-2018, 10:53 AM
 
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He most likely is looking for a caretaker.
Why caretaker? He can move without any problems. And he works part-time on a volunteer basis and goes to sport every day.
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Old 01-20-2018, 10:57 AM
 
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Why caretaker? He can move without any problems. And he works part-time on a volunteer basis and goes to sport every day.
You're defending him a lot. So then what's the problem? You want him despite his craziness, so put up with that. Good luck and be advised that even faux scam kidney dialysis is hella expensive.
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Old 01-20-2018, 11:04 AM
 
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You're defending him a lot. So then what's the problem? You want him despite his craziness, so put up with that. Good luck and be advised that even faux scam kidney dialysis is hella expensive.
It seems like it could be the idea that keeps her involved.This dramatic romantic possessive guy is crazy head over heels for her, but in reality theres nothing stopping her from meeting him in person- unless she also suspects that this is too good to be true, and doesn't want it to end...

Real relationships are a lot less exciting than pretend ones!
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