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Old 01-22-2018, 07:11 AM
 
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It wouldn't bother me in the least. The only objection I had to my late h's "man cave" was that it was an absolute sty. When he ran out of room in there due to his hoarding he began to take over MY office space - um, no babe. You got yours, leave mine alone! (Especially since his space was twice the size of mine).
You might reconsider if you saw all the "animated" women & scenarios he creates on the regular...

Exhibit 9435 is on the screen in the pic.

OP- Women kryptonite is not just the room. All the "scenes/situations" with fake, computer generated woman will do it for you.
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Old 01-22-2018, 07:35 AM
 
Location: Florida
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You might reconsider if you saw all the "animated" women & scenarios he creates on the regular...

Exhibit 9435 is on the screen in the pic.

OP- Women kryptonite is not just the room. All the "scenes/situations" with fake, computer generated woman will do it for you.
So what?
He has a serious "hobby" which he is good at.
If any LT relationship develops where what his house looks like matters, he has said before he doesn't care if a woman decorates it whatever way she wants.
Many men have pretty atrocious 'bachelor pads'
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Old 01-22-2018, 07:43 AM
 
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So what?
He has a serious "hobby" which he is good at.
If any LT relationship develops where what his house looks like matters, he has said before he doesn't care if a woman decorates it whatever way she wants.
Many men have pretty atrocious 'bachelor pads'
Clearly, you haven't read most of OPs threads.
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Old 01-22-2018, 07:55 AM
 
Location: a primitive state
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If you add a comfy sofa with soft decorative pillows and a warm throw blanket, a woman could nest up and hang out in there with you.

Be sure the rest of your house is clean. Stock up on tea, sparkling water, cheese, crackers, fruit and nuts.

Have fluffy towels and clean sheets, too.

That way a woman will feel comfortable and welcome in your space.
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Old 01-22-2018, 08:05 AM
 
Location: Florida
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Clearly, you haven't read most of OPs threads.
I've read them all.
In case you don't know, I am female so my post is from a woman's perspective....just my own, of course.
I suppose I do not expect perfection like so many on here seem to.
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Old 01-22-2018, 08:22 AM
 
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A man cave wouldn't be very appealing to me, but so what? If I had a she shed, it'd be the frilliest, sparkliest, laciest she shed ever invented, and my husband would probably hate it, and so what? It's not for him. lol


What my husband and I DO have is shared space. So our family room is given over to our love of Louisiana and Mardi-Gras, and HE has a shelf in the family room given over to World of Warcraft figures, Walking Dead figures, and Marvel and DC comics figures. That room is also where we watch TV, and there's a computer for each of us.
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Old 01-22-2018, 08:29 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Man caves in general are not a turnoff.

A woman who gets to the point of coming to your house will probably have a good idea at that point what you're interested in.

But when she gets there, please don't have that image of the naked woman splayed on the monitor like an insect pinned down in a collection. THAT is a turnoff:

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Old 01-22-2018, 08:35 AM
 
Location: Middle of nowhere
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I set up our game room. Pool table, video gaming area with big TV and multiple gaming systems, couches, a board game area, bar, and soda fountain. I even built my wifes office as a birthday gift and finished it to look like a steam punk train station office and bought her a DX racer gaming chair. Next step is to start building her gaming computer set up for retirement. But even her office space has a comfy chair tucked in the corner for me when I want to hang out. Our game room is where everyone hangs out whenever people are over.
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Old 01-22-2018, 08:42 AM
 
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I set up our game room. Pool table, video gaming area with big TV and multiple gaming systems, couches, a board game area, bar, and soda fountain. I even built my wifes office as a birthday gift and finished it to look like a steam punk train station office and bought her a DX racer gaming chair. Next step is to start building her gaming computer set up for retirement. But even her office space has a comfy chair tucked in the corner for me when I want to hang out. Our game room is where everyone hangs out whenever people are over.

That sounds cool!
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Old 01-22-2018, 08:49 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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...full standup 80's old school arcades (i.e. Williams Defender, Donkey Kong, Froggger), jukebox...


You'd have to forcibly remove me from that room.
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