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Why does the opposite sex continuously send mix signals??!
Long story short I have been seeing this guy on and off for 3 yrs.
Started out with a FWB thing.But I told him I wanted more. Now onto current time frame we have been seeing each other more often.We spent time together before christmas,before new years and right after.No sex. He even said he wants to spend Superbowl with me and a vacation with me.It will be him and i sharing a room.And his close friends will be going too. He has hinted at me being his girlfriend but never came straight forward with it. Last night I went out with him to eat and talked about our kids and friends and such.Then I started talking about when I was young and dumb and another dude started talking with me because he grew up in the area I was talking about.I noticed my guy doing the bit of macho thing,then when he was ready to leave rubbed my back and were on our way.
My question is about several scenarios,where he avoids sex with me. And he now only hugs me or kisses me on the cheek.Well I was mad about it and drove home silent.He knew I was ticked off. No communication from him today. I assume he has another lady and I'm really tired of this crap.
So city data people what should I Do? Am I jumping to assumptions?
You have been seeing each other off and on for three years. Your communication should be such that you feel comfortable discussing your question with him.
Raena, I don't know...I think he is keeping you on the hook in case one day he wants some again. Then he can amp up his "hints" until you sleep with him. He doesn't want to fully let you go because after all you were a source of no strings fun in the past, so maybe you will change your mind again...
I mean is all this hinting and back touching enough for you? Cut him loose! Find someone who is DYING to be with you. Someone you won't have to wonder about...you'll know. Drop this guy!
You said you wanted more. You aren't getting more. You're not going to get more.
Shoulda given the guy who wanted to listen to your stories your number, monkey.
Don't settle for someone who's going to kiss you on the cheek, avoid sex, ( wut?) and not care when you're unhappy.
You have been seeing each other off and on for three years. Your communication should be such that you feel comfortable discussing your question with him.
Raena, I don't know...I think he is keeping you on the hook in case one day he wants some again. Then he can amp up his "hints" until you sleep with him. He doesn't want to fully let you go because after all you were a source of no strings fun in the past, so maybe you will change your mind again...
I mean is all this hinting and back touching enough for you? Cut him loose! Find someone who is DYING to be with you. Someone you won't have to wonder about...you'll know. Drop this guy!
That's the thing he is avoiding sex now. I do want someone who is dying to be with me. I think he is stringing me along.
You said you wanted more. You aren't getting more. You're not going to get more.
Shoulda given the guy who wanted to listen to your stories your number, monkey.
Don't settle for someone who's going to kiss you on the cheek, avoid sex, ( wut?) and not care when you're unhappy.
I know right!? The other guy was listening better.
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wut?) and not care when you're unhappy.
