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Old 01-31-2018, 03:59 PM
 
Location: Forests of Maine
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Do guys care how much girls eat on dates?

... Is someone eating a lot a turn off for you? Are guys turned off by it? Am I overthinking this?
If a person is seriously over-weight I might be concerned. By that I mean medically obese [BMI 30+].
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Old 01-31-2018, 04:01 PM
 
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I love when ladies eat more than I do, belch and fart and let it loose without being all prim and proper.

Ladies out there, don't y'all worry about the bill when yours truly takes you on a date. As long as you finish everything on your plate and act like you are enjoying my company, all is well.
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Old 01-31-2018, 04:14 PM
 
Location: between Mars and Venus
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I love when ladies eat more than I do, belch and fart and let it loose without being all prim and proper.

Ladies out there, don't y'all worry about the bill when yours truly takes you on a date. As long as you finish everything on your plate and act like you are enjoying my company, all is well.

That's my man!

But I'd be careful about letting it all loose...maybe a little at a time
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Old 01-31-2018, 05:38 PM
Status: "I don't understand. But I don't care, so it works out." (set 7 days ago)
 
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Scarlett O'Hara - "Well Ashley Wilkes says he likes a girl with a healthy appetite!"
Mammy - "I don't notice Mist' Ashley asking for to marry you"
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Old 01-31-2018, 05:40 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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In the term "healthy appetite" the word healthy means exactly that.
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Old 01-31-2018, 05:43 PM
Status: "I don't understand. But I don't care, so it works out." (set 7 days ago)
 
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In the term "healthy appetite" the word healthy means exactly that.
Hmm. I don't know. A "healthy appetite" means a strong desire to eat. It doesn't mean the wish to eat reasonable portions of healthful food.
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Old 01-31-2018, 06:05 PM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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Because she's from the rural Carolinas and recently moved to the city. She doesn't know anybody. A dinner date is way better than sitting alone in a cheap motel room.
^^^ This. Remember her Thanksgiving lonely meal at Denny's?

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Because her life is really tough, was really tough in the past and he might be an escape for her to have some moments of normality and companionship.
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Because she is bored, broke, has no friends or family nearby. And of course she enjoys free food and entertainment...
and ^^^ this.

Daisy is struggling. Show her a little compassion.
She knows she is making bad choices, but her life is tough. Any small and unexpected pleasure is a highlight of her day. Obviously she is worried that enjoying the food, and eating too much might upset this guy, and end her happiness prematurely.
I bet she wants to keep this guy as long as she can.
He is nice, he is not abusive like the others...
I just hope that some day she will meet a good guy who would care about her, and want more than just sex.
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Old 01-31-2018, 06:20 PM
 
Location: Middle of nowhere
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^^^ This. Remember her Thanksgiving lonely meal at Denny's?



^^^ This



and ^^^ this.

Daisy is struggling. Show her a little compassion.
She knows she is making bad choices, but her life is tough. Any small and unexpected pleasure is a highlight of her day. Obviously she is worried that enjoying the food, and eating too much might upset this guy, and end her happiness prematurely.
I bet she wants to keep this guy as long as she can.
He is nice, he is not abusive like the others...
I just hope that some day she will meet a good guy who would care about her, and want more than just sex.
But you can be compassionate without encouraging bad decisions, and unhealthy behaviors. Most of us know her back story and are trying to encourage better decisions so that she doesn't end up planning a wedding then crying about a horrible break up in a few weeks.
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Old 01-31-2018, 06:22 PM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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There is not going to be any wedding with this guy... She knows that.
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Old 01-31-2018, 06:32 PM
 
Location: Middle of nowhere
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There is not going to be any wedding with this guy... She knows that.
No, she was told that. That doesn't mean that she believes it. How many people told her that the last booty call guy was just looking for sex yet she was planning their lives together. She has a history of making nothing into something in her mind.
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