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-That's sad that you think inviting someone into your home and making a lot of effort to make dinner seems like laziness and desperation to you.
This is what I was thinking too. Anyone can buy a dinner. Cooking up a dinner to impress someone is a lot of effort. And cooking up a dinner in HER kitchen .... Well, that's the ultimate date.
Let's go over this again. Where in the above sentence is sex mentioned?
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-That's sad that you think inviting someone into your home and making a lot of effort to make dinner seems like laziness and desperation to you.
-I have girls in my social circle that have admitted accepting dates for a free dinner out. Do you honestly think they telegraph it lmao Some humans are crap people. This includes women *gasp* and some women use men on occasion *gasp*
Okay, it was only until recently a close woman friend Ive known for roughly 7 years admitted to me that she would go on Tinder occasionally to hookup for nacho's and or pizza, LOl. I'm not even joking around. She absolutely thinks sex (intercourse) is gross and all she really wants is companionship (nacho's too). Shes the type of person that is deathly afraid to be alone . She even went as far as telling me the guy only gets bj's or tug jobs if hes half way decent looking; no intercourse, unless there's a solid commitment. Mind you, this woman isn't ugly either, for a lot of guys, probably in the gorgeous category. However, there's a lot going on upstairs.
She suffers chronic depression and is heavily sedated on SSRI's and other drugs on a daily basis
I know some of you are thinking, did I offer nachos? Lol. No I couldn't do that.
I’ve skipped through mosts of the posts on this, and speed read one or two, so perhaps I’ve not understood what the OP means, but when I was ‘in the life’, and I took a girl/woman out to dinner, then she could knock herself out, eat the knives and forks if she wished.
I can only speak for myself, but if I invited a woman out, I picked up the tab, and as my dinner guest she could eat whatever she chose.
I didn’t care if it was smoked salmon and scrambled eggs, then Key Lime pie, or vichyssoise, then prime rib, followed by strawberries and cream, no girl went home hungry after a date with me, unless she was on a self imposed diet.
Most people who meet after work go out to eat first, then do something else. He knows that she lives in a hotel, and can't cook meals there. And whatever she eats isn't great because she is on the budget. So, he takes her out to nice places, because he knows food makes her happy. Obviously making her happy is important to him.
Yeah, but there's other ways to make her happy besides going out to eat most of the time. I don't know what his motivations are.
Hey, 303 guy would sound like an ideal date for me. I prefer home cooked food over constant restaurant eating anyway :/
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Some humans are crap people. This includes women *gasp* and some women use men on occasion *gasp*
. She even went as far as telling me the guy only gets bj's or tug jobs if hes half way decent looking; no intercourse, unless there's a solid commitment. Mind you, this woman isn't ugly either, for a lot of guys, probably in the gorgeous category. However, there's a lot going on upstairs. 
