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I was watching people talk about dating standards on TV, and the people seem to mirror the hypocrisy that I read online. These girls were upset that there's a preference for girls who haven't been around a lot and said that women are expected to be virgins. They said it wasn't fair and implied that we should be equals as far as amount sex partners go.
The problem with that is they, like many women, think that men should do the pursuing and paying for dates, because they're "old fashioned."
It seems like there is always a problem when men have standards that not all girls can reach. I thought "body shaming" was pointless complaining, but this is new to me. Are men expected to be accepting of anything now?
These women probably felt rejected by men who value chastity thus harboring bitterness and projecting their previous experience onto the entire male populous. It's like incompatibility is a foreign concept to them, so their cynicism drives them to shame all men regardless if some men are okay with promiscuous ladies. This same behavior can be seen in men as well. Nothing new here.
No one is obligated to go out with anyone they do not want to.
Why you would think otherwise is confusing, and perhaps you shouldn't date until you become a little more mature.
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I just hope that men who demand chaste women or women who have not been around a few times are chaste or celibate themselves. A man should not expect a virgin if he is not a virgin himself. A man should not expect a woman who has not been around if he has in fact been around himself.
Last edited by Atlanta_BD; 02-04-2018 at 11:21 AM..
I think the problem is that men want a chaste wife but won't take out a woman more than 3 times if she hasn't put out by that time.
Right. So how does that work?
If he won't take the chaste little virgin who won't sleep with him out more than 3 times, do they get married on the 3rd date?
Right. So how does that work?
If he won't take the chaste little virgin who won't sleep with him out more than 3 times, do they get married on the 3rd date?
Yup - if she refuses him on the third date he whisks her off to a wedding chapel...and then they CAN do it on the "third date"! Everybody wins!
Right. So how does that work?
If he won't take the chaste little virgin who won't sleep with him out more than 3 times, do they get married on the 3rd date?
All that goes out the window you meet someone you really care about.
I had a friend who was the biggest hoe around, but when he met a certain woman, he left it all at the door. He followed her around like a puppy dog the first night we were out; he was crazy about her, claiming he was going to marry her. He said they waited for a couple months before sleeping together.
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