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I met this girl on a online dating site (Tinder) and well we been talking by text and snapchat for about a month now.. however when ever i try to flirt with her she is not really flirting back.. she told me she likes me and would consider dating me for sure (she has never been in a relationship and shes 20) its her first time. Well we have not seen each other in person yet but she just doesnt flirt back..
I will send her a heart and RARELY she will send one back or most of the time she will reply with haha.
Other times I call her cute and she will reply with :P or haha.
But than other times if I ask her if she has interest in me she says yes and I find you very cute and I like that you are not pushy.
I met this girl on a online dating site (Tinder) and well we been talking by text and snapchat for about a month now.. however when ever i try to flirt with her she is not really flirting back.. she told me she likes me and would consider dating me for sure (she has never been in a relationship and shes 20) its her first time. Well we have not seen each other in person yet but she just doesnt flirt back..
I will send her a heart and RARELY she will send one back or most of the time she will reply with haha.
Other times I call her cute and she will reply with :P or haha.
But than other times if I ask her if she has interest in me she says yes and I find you very cute and I like that you are not pushy.
You haven't even met yet.
Some people just aren't great at flirting via text. Some people are VERY good at it but in the end it means nothing.
Work on meeting her in person so you can see if you really actually like each other.
Some people just aren't great at flirting via text. Some people are VERY good at it but in the end it means nothing.
Ya but you see my point she lives about 40 minutes from me without traffic.. and I dont want to go all the way down there with my car if she may not even be interested..
Ya but you see my point she lives about 40 minutes from me without traffic.. and I dont want to go all the way down there with my car if she may not even be interested..
Ya but you see my point she lives about 40 minutes from me without traffic.. and I dont want to go all the way down there with my car if she may not even be interested..
Ya and my point is that you won't KNOW if she's interested (or if YOU are even actually interested) until you meet.
Y'all could send nothing but hearts and kissy lips emojis and then meet up and her laugh makes you want to pull out your own spine and beat her with it.
So ... either date girls who live within walking distance or get realistic about what matters in relationships.
Ya but you see my point she lives about 40 minutes from me without traffic.. and I dont want to go all the way down there with my car if she may not even be interested..
She said she's interested OP. Some women don't flirt, even in person, let alone by text. Relax, and stop having these expectations/requirements. Appreciate the fact that she's modest (her when you compliment her); consider it a good sign.
Good grief! You only think of it as a potential waste of time. You're not thinking of it as potentially missing out on a good thing, if you don't go. The alternative, is to call the Psychic Hotline or visit a gypsy, to ask if they can divine whether she's interested in meeting you or not.
What else do you have to do on a weekend, anyway? I can't believe this.
OP, what if a woman flirts back with you, but when you drive the distance to see her, you discover you don't have much in common and you're not a good match? Still a waste of time, even though she flirted with you.
Last edited by Ruth4Truth; 02-10-2018 at 03:41 PM..
She said she's interested OP. Some women don't flirt, even in person, let alone by text. Relax, and stop having these expectations/requirements. Appreciate the fact that she's modest (her when you compliment her); consider it a good sign.
Good grief! You only think of it as a potential waste of time. You're not thinking of it as potentially missing out on a good thing, if you don't go. The alternative, is to call the Psychic Hotline or visit gypsy, to ask if they can divine whether she's interested in meeting you or not.
What else do you have to do on a weekend, anyway? I can't believe this.
OP, what if a woman flirts back with you, but when you drive the distance to see her, you discover you don't have much in common and you're not a good match? Still a waste of time, even though she flirted with her.
I have to say you make a good point in all that.. could also be because she has never been in a relationship she doesnt know how to flirt ..
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when you compliment her); consider it a good sign.
